Is it a bad idea to spontaneously have anal sex?

I saw another post on here talking about preperations, and I've heard you should go to the bathroom beforehand. Would you shit if you don't go to the bathroom beforehand?

Also, I've heard that having anal sex without a condom, but using some type of lube is better than having anal sex with a condom, because the condom causes friction? True?


Thanks :sunny:

 

Train your body to go to the toilet at certain times that suit you. I kinda fucked my system up by taking laxatives and well, I only seem to go now when I take them. I can apparently stop this by not taking them but at least I know nothing will come out when getting smashed in the rear. Suits me anyway.

 

The answer to the first question depends on how much of an anal whore you are fucking. I had a girl pull me out and sucked me off--even with a little of her own shit on my cock. Definitely marriage material!

Anal sex without a condom is better mentally, because if a girl wants you to fuck her ass so badly that she does not care for protection, shows devotion to the point of risking her own life. Of course, for this approach both should go get checked before proceeding.

 

I hate admitting this, but I've taken/take laxatives for reason regarding a few of my eating issues. But when I don't take them for months apart I don't go, just because I eat weird.

But I guess that's good, for anal, because nothing would come out? Or is it in there, but not coming out? (wow, sorry if that's gross).

 

Just use an enema or something and all should be dandy..

 

Im not going to use an enema...ever, but seeing as though i said spontaneous i wouldnt have one on hand.

 

then what did you bother asking for?.

 

Definitely a bad idea - very risky in a non-monogamous relationship. Most std's including the very dangerous ones are passes anally through fissures in the rectum. Definitely don't do this without a condom - even though that may destroy the spontanaity.

 

If You want anal Sex use Condom always .

 

I'm pretty sure I'm an outlier case (not the norm) but with the 3 partners I've had anal sex and dozen or so times none have involved any preparations. It's been a case of me giving head, then licking her ass, and then fingering it and then by mutual consents anal sex. It's true if there is poop ready to come right out you'd notice it with a finger - and she'd probably not be into rimming or a finger in the first place if she knew there was a poop on its way. I've not experience this yet.

Of the times I've had anal sex I think two or three have resulted in something dirty above and beyond good clean anal fun. On those occasions one resulted her in running off to the bathroom embarrassed and then no anal sex until the next time, another I just stuck my finger in an removed the (small) obstruction, cleaned up and carried on, and another I just wiped it away without her noticing (some lube and kleenex to hand make this easy). The rest of the times my equipment came out pretty much clean as a whistle - I'm pretty amazed at how clean women seem to keep their bums.

Also, as others have suggested, between bowel movement the bit of your ass that is penetrated by a penis is empty anyway. It's only just before one where the poop ends up in the rectum just the other side of the sphincter. Because most people can tell when their rectum is full they don't generally get involved in anal then. People who poop in the squatting position, or sit upright and are relaxed during bowel movements, and eat a healthy generally manage to produce a nice long "well put together" stool and evacuate themselves completely so there is nothing left over either.

So that's my anecdotal evidence that it can work out, mostly okay without preparation and so long as she and he is not completely grossed out it's a case of fuck it and see...

As for sex without a condom - I've done that with long term partners where we both new we were clean disease wise. It's sometimes been solution for those "oops no condoms" moments and she has still been eager for me to cum in her. I've found that women that like the idea of your juicy cum floating around in them vs. in a condom seem to enjoy nice gooey cum in their ass - but obviously they worry about it squirting out later and messing up the sheets. Guys should do them a favor and offer to clean up ;-) I've not had any issues with cleanliness of her ass when going bareback and I figure if she is into letting me pleasure her there then I should do whatever she wants. If the guy has any doubts he should take a piss afterwards just to be sure, it'll probably help clean the pipes a bit.

As for lube I have to admit (again this probably the exception to the rule) that I've had anal without anything but saliva and pussy juice as lube about a quarter of the times. We didn't really have any problems but it was with an experience and relaxed partner going really slow. On the whole I'd go with the standard advice - one can never have too much lube.

Sorry if this is crappy advice but that goes with the territory. YMMV!

 

Great post I agree totally zarniwhoop.

My GF and I are in a committed relationship and STD free and we have been exclusively anal for almost a year and a half. We have unprotected totally spontaneous anal. An added bonus of being exclusively anal she got off birth control.Never had any messes or had to clean the sheets. We have to have a towel when we make love because she is a squrter once she is warmed up squirts hard on every stroke. She will soak the bed or couch or floor or all the above.

I don't care if I get poop on my dick. If u don't want to get wet stay out of the water. When I get inside her she used to ask me if I felt anything up there and 9 out of 10 times was no. A little poop on my dick or none makes no difference I wash my dick with soap and water and pee when we finish.

If you are doing a position like *cow girl and she is slamming down on you stand a greater chance of a mess if she has something in her. We love that position her sphincter gets really open and She loves it when my dick rubs her colon.

For those of you who love anal because it's tighter than vaginal...
You are doing it wrong!
Most women have one bad Anal experience and write anal sex off forever. One dumb guy who dosent know how to give a woman anal ruined it for the rest of us. Well not me... *But I am lucky!!!
For the women who had a bad experience try to give it a chance again. Try to Masterbate anally *with LUBE and a small dildo or butt plug. Mentally you have to want to have something in your ass and your body has to want it.
And I believe the woman has to truly be into you.

If she's tense her inner sphincter is involuntary that means she has no control over it.

 

We've never had a problem with spontaneous anal. Just lube up and go for it! It's not normally messy, but sometimes, just a little. But really, in the realm of things, who the hell cares? By that time we're having waaaaaaaay too much fun to let a little doo doo stand in the way of sone mind blowing orgasms!

 

well i am also dependent on laxatives and take them alot but it keeps me clean because u never know when u are gonna have anal sex with someone, rubbers on or off is the mans decision im with if he doesnt want one on im not gonna tell him he has to wear one thats bullshit