He keeps bringing this up in conversation?

I am 19 and a 28 year old guy wants to get with me. We text each other and talk on the phone, but we have never met. I sent him a few pictures of me in my bra and panties.
I have only been with one other guy, and have only had sex with one other guy. Everytime we talk on the phone, he always brings up how he can't believe that I've only had sex with one guy.
Why does he keep bringing this up? I don't know if it's a turn on or off for him.

 

Only he knows exactly why. But if I were to speculate, maybe he just thinks you are very attractive. I say this because that would be my own reaction, too.

 

How many times and in how many different ways do you intend on asking the same question? Is there a particular response that will placate you enough to move on to other topics?

 

i'm sure lots of 28 year old guys want to get with you.

 

Maybe he's just surprised? I don't mean that in an offensive way. Maybe he just assumed you had more experience with how attractive you are? Ask him?

 

I agree with everyone else. It's probably because you are really attractive. He may also find your confidence surprising to not have much experience.

 

the answer is 42..

 

He is shocked and willing to make this fact no more for you

 

Don't mess with him. Any guy at 28 that goes for a 19 year old has obviously failed on all levels with woman his own age.

 

Maybe he's a giant loser who doesn't know how to initiate new conversation. It's a large possibility, considering the assumption you met online?

 

If a girl sent me pictures like that I'd probably be wondering too ....

And yeah, at 28 he should probably be looking at someone his own age:banghead:

 

I find this rather funny, a while ago they were telling people not to go after MINORS. Now I'm seeing people making a big deal just 'cause an adult is going after another who is also legally OF AGE.

 

Playing devils advocate here:

Because the critical thinking part of your brain doesn't even fully develop until you're 21. Being of age and being mature enough are 2 totally different things.

 

at what age can he start looking at someone of another age?

 

Good question ... I'll rephrase

Age difference is not important (as long as it works out, of course) but guys going on thirty hooking up with girls that have just become adults (legally speaking) always make me wonder. Of course a person at age 19 (especially a girl) maybe more mature than their ID suggests, but still ...

I can almost hear him think: "Wow honey you look nice in those knickers ... 'you sure you're not a slut who messes around with every Tom, Dick, and Joe (especially Dick)? Cuz I'd really dig that"

 

And who decides it's 21? I've met a lot of people OVER that age who are ridiculously immature. On the flip side, I've also met those who are BELOW the age of 18 who are definitely more mature than the said group of over-21 people.

But one thing I WILL agree with you on is your last sentence; that being of age and being mature enough are two totally different things.

 

Lol, scientists decide sweetie. Proven fact your critical thinking doesn't fully develop till 21.

But yes, maturity comes at all different ages.

 

he's looking for tight pussy

 

Weird, i mean, one time is nicee and stuff but saying it all the time? How do you respond to that? Hahaha
And also, a 28 years old guy? Hmmm nah I would think he is a creeper

 

We didn't meet online. A guy friend of mine gave him my number one night, and we've been texting and talking on the phone ever since.
And he claims that he's been with a lot of different women, and that he just got out of a 3 year relationship with someone around his age.