Any women that had trouble reaching orgasm

How did it finally happen?
What did you do mentally to relax and let go?

 

I've never had the slightest trouble reaching orgasm-I should probably open my own sex therapy clinic to help those that do....it would be a nice way to make a living...

 

I was feeling courageous one night ...I really wanted to know what everyone was raving about. I just relaxed myself by confirming that whatever horrible situation that may come is worth knowing what it's like.I think a lot of women fear not having control over their body... I don't know it just felt too good to stop so I kept going. Your whole form gets warm and there's this pressure. It's like your jumping on 4 levels of nirvana, each step a little enjoyable than the last it's this incredible saturated tingling sensation that builds and builds then- you hit the peak.
I haven't ever experienced an orgasm while having sex, only alone unfortunately. I'm kind of glad because when I get there... that intensity is so profound that I would probably be that persons slave for life. I would worship that person if they were capable of doing what I do to my body.

So if your question was intended for sex only and not just in general then I can't be of much help. But i'll get back to you if that ever happens. But I probably wouldn't have time to because i'll be feeding him grapes and fanning him with palm leaves.

 

Please do; if he lets you leave him (I wouldn't.)

It was intended in general, though, so thanks for answering!

 

I don't usually have a hard time getting off. But occasionaly I have a hard time getting horny. In years past I would just do my womanly duties and let him squeeze in even though I couldn't get ready.

It's pretty much impossible for me to come if I get penetrated when I can't even get wet first and I know the sex can't be that good for him either if I'm not losing it.

So I started taking my time on those rare days when some chemical imbalance or bad burrito or whatever mystic barrier was keeping my panties dry. First I tried listlessly diddling myself but it was barely helping.

Lot's of foreplay ended up being the key and as it turns out, he doesn't care how long it takes. He'd much rather spend time massaging (sp?) my naked body and talking to me about how much he loves me and loves fucking me and have me gush all over him rather than concede to a somewhat joyless pounding

 

I had this problem with my first boyfriend. we didn't have sex until a year after we were together and it was really hard reaching orgasms. i mean really really hard! turns out for me it was all in my emotions. we argued a lot and i think we were trying to have "make up" sex but i just wasn't into it when i was upset. I'm perfectly fine with it now that i realized what the problem was. no issues at all