Men and women ARE unequal. Some men are better than some women and vice versa. The true key is knowing which works for you and your spouse and working out the details: if you need a mommy to care for your every need, find one who's happy to do so. If you're a woman in need of a daddy to treat you like a princess, do it. All relationships that leave each partner smiling and content at the end of the day are worthwhile and should be left to the people living them.