maybe i'm just being too nice or something...

i've always considered myself to be a very generous guy... when i had cash, and herbs, earlier this semester, i would always share with my friends, even with people who i didn't know very well, we'd just smoke like it wasn't anything. because my philosophy is what goes around comes around, even with smoking. anyway, now that i don't have any, it seems as though people are reluctant to do the same for me, even my closest friends. i always feel like i'm going out of my way to ask for a smoke, or i feel that they're "doing me a favor" by smoking me out, even though i never felt that way when i did it for them... but i don't think i should change who i am, i still wanna be known as a nice guy and not a stingy guy. but still, wtf, why do people have to be this way?

 

Because people do what they have to do to survive. It is the human instinct to be greedy with things you "need". You have overcome this animal like act, you should be proud of yourself.

 

yeh man im the same, though i dont really feel like im going out of my way i just go 'take take take, wheres the give?'
and they often come around.
like if someones been moochin and never pay me back, i just stop and tell them straight that there needs to be balance or else its not fair on me.

though its true, most poeople arent as generous.

whenever i smoke people out, heaopsf of people are always like 'thanks man' 'yeh no probs' 'nar, really, thanks for the smoke man' 'yeh its coo' ...'hey man thanks' (theyre stoned)

but ive been smoked out a fair amount so thats why i know how good it is, and thats why i share.

but i wont share if theres too many people around caus then i have to share to everyone

 

I know what ya mean miami. Whenever I have a stash I'll smoke anyone up. I relish the moments when I'm able to share the wealth cause most of the time I just get high and play video games. It's more fun to smoke with others. I dunno, some people are just weird with drugs. bigT was right, with a relatively difficult to obtain substance like weed people want as much of it for just themselves. You can learn a lot about certain people when drugs are introduced to the scene.

 

yeah dude ive friends like that. they eventually came around and smoked my ass the fuck out. jsut confront ur friends about it. tell them that you smoked them up and will continue to do so when you have some and that they are dickheads if the dont reciprocate(lol that word always reminds me of oral sex)

 

lets just say that maybe one or two of my friends actually invite me to smoke with them, occasionally still. these are two good friends. the rest of them smoke, and they'll even section themselves off to go smoke, that's why i always feel like a burden...

for instance, two weekends ago, during thanksgiving break, i smoked this kid out on maybe three blunts during the weekend. the last blunt i even remember him asking me specificaly if he could smoke (cause this other dude spotted me $25 bucks, i told him it was only gonna be me and him). but i let him anyways... since then, i've seen him with multiple sacks, and the last time he closed himself in a room. i went in and had to ask him for one bong rip and he gave me one of those looks. wtf man...

 

u look pretty big from ur pics startin crackin fuckin skulls hahahahahhaha

 

well i'm a peaceful giant man, i'm not really pro-violence. but i'll have my turn i'm sure... might not be now, might not be for a while... but i can wait, and when my time comes maybe i'll just have to treat myself for a little while. then we'll see how many people come up and ask me as i did with them.

 

hehee

 

so i mean, how do you feel in your time of need though? do you just go about not caring that the people you helped out aren't really helping you? i guess it's just my philosophy and the way i was brought up. you could call it sharing, but it's much more than that i feel... it's almost like karma...

 

hehee

 

dude i been dry for 2 months. i have friends i smoked up with last year...when i say smoekd up i mena that i dont think i smoked by myself even one time. they smoked me out occasionally but mostly it was jsut matching. it pisses me off cuz i sent one 20$ to get and mail me some weed. i was only asking for a ten and i sent him 10 for himself. he started telling ppl he was gonna buy a CD wiht it and then he said he was jsut joking and that he was too scared to mail it. what happened was i set it up for him to toke up with my girlfriend (who i got her into weed and she's too pussy to mail me some too) and to give her my half of the bag. well like a dickhead he didnt break the bag up first and they all sat around smoking bowls and then he ripped her off with the remaining bud cuz shes a newbie. oh well, he has promised to smoke me out a bunch come christmas when i fly there so well see what happens. as for you my jolly giant i think you should just save your money up for a while and get yourself a hefty bag and say fuck everyone else.

 

Well man, if someone you've smoked up a few times is being stingy, call him out on it, just lay it out straight and say "dude, I've given you so much smoke, time to reciprocate." Better to be honest than pissed off. Sometimes I'll not tell a person my complaint and just stew over it, then find out later that they had no idea they'd wronged me. So it's better to just be up front and save yourself the hassle of the grudge.

And if this happens a lot, where you smoke others out and they don't do likewise, generosity aside you have to look at the facts: weed isn't cheap and can sometimes be hard to come by. Stop sharing so much if that's what it takes.

 

hey man, i completely understand what you're sayin. I've had that shit happen w/my friends too, and I just go on like it ain't shit... just feel good about yourself for being giving and kind man... that's the shit you know? Ppl will always do you wrong, but it's fukin great to know you do them right... do be straight w/them though... dude's right up there- call 'em out man. tell them the business and if they still don't share the wealth, go on.

 

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i guess i just have alot of free time on my hands...

 

and alot of fucking weed smoke in your face damn i wish i was at your college

 

damn straight you do, about 60 posts a day, woo!

anyhow, thats a drag when you cant get bud and your town is dry, but its times like that you can grow your tolerence back up and then when bud is back, you will give out a great big sigh of relaxastion!

It sucks that your your friends, even closests are not smoking you out that much, its sad when people deprive others of smoking their bud when they really need to. Luckily here so many people smoke its easy to find herb(how ever dry spells are the worst.)

btw i didnt read much of this thread so if i reiteriated whats already been said sorry!

 

if i was you, whenever i got a bag i would just put a few buds to the side for those times when you would of normally been dry...and then just toke a little less with your buddies..unless you get them to pack..haha

 

another thing you could do is get people to match you rahter then letting them toke for free.