Where's the generic thread about closure and relationships that are ending?

This is the place to post about all of your "letting go" rituals. Talk about ending relationships without totally losing it. Tell me all about grieving a relationship that didnt work out, and then about how to create a normal space where love can happen again. Discuss how to keep from becoming bitter.

Okay, go!

 

put everything from that person in a box not just their stuff but presents cards ect and leave a note saying here is some stuff if you don't know what to do with it throw it out don't give it back. that's the ultimate closure, no box taped up in the closet with reminders, erase the pictures on your computer and put any albums in the box and avoid being around anyone you both know or any place wher that person might be. if you avoid the person they don't stay bitter and it gives their feelings a chance to cool down and promote both of you moving on. I have learned that break ups need to be clean staying friends rarely works unless you were just casual.