Orgasms from penetration VS Clitoral orgasms

Personally, i've never experienced an orgasm from penetration... Is this a myth? I don't think I have anyways? I'm really worried i'm only able to orgasm from clitoral stimulation. I've had powerful orgasms this way (hand-solo only).
It does feel really good ...maybe I have an it's just not as pronounced as the other way.

Sometimes I wonder what the point is having sex because I never reach that blissful state where sex is worth talking about.

Have any of you had any difficulty having an orgasm this way as well, and can share some advice on how to get THERE?

...or should I just join the circus .. dun dun dunanana dundun nana

All advice welcome. let the trolling begin...

 

Some women can't orgasm from penetrative sex.
Some women need to train themselves to do it.. you've gotta learn how to do with with your hands first (it takes forever, trust me, your arms will feel like they're gonna fall off), then teach your lover how to do it with their hands, then they have to get the feel for how to make your orgasm with their cocks the way they did with their hands.

But, then again, some women just can't orgasm that way. But you could try that way above.. just find what feels good and keep at it, even if it takes like 45 mins

 

Some women can't orgasm at all, be happy =P

From a guy that uses condoms as contraceptive, I understand your position on intercourse; but it's really about the intimacy for me. Blowjobs, anal, cumming on tits - this is what you do for fun. Sex is love.

There are positions that can help (you can google them), any positions that really push on the upper wall or get the G. And a vibrator could really help, but other than that, seized pretty much covered it in my opinion.

 

It's all about figuring out what you like. Try new things or partners. When i first stated having sex I felt exactly the way you do but now my orgasms are very intense and it dosen't take long. It's not a big deal if you don't have orgasms from penetration, I never have but I still enjoy it. It's a cliche but sex gets better with age. My best advise is to relax and don't focus on an orgasm. Enjoy it all!

 

I don't see that it's a big deal.

Practice makes perfect.

Also, if you don't KNOW if you had an orgasm at any given time, you DIDN'T have an orgasm

*edit* Everyone point and laugh at wild-flower's mutant vagina!

 

faking it works for most women.

Some women have even faked themselves into real orgasms. True story...read it somewhere

 

remind me to never sleep with you.

 

When I first meet my wife, I could make her cum over the phone.. Now I need a trampoline, and a weeks notice..

 

never had an orgasm from penetration, but a few times I felt like I was close to it.

nothing can beat clit orgasm though I am content with it. I have my own way and I don't feel like there is a problem at all. I do enjoy sex though, both the physical feeling and intimacy. I am sure it's possible to orgasm from penetr. sex, it just takes time and some work, from both parties

 

Why no mention of anal orgasms? I've recently talked to a girl who told me her anal orgasms were much stronger than her vaginal ones.

 

I would recommend masturbating for a few minutes before you start with penetration and then continuing to rub your clitoris while your parter is thrusting in and out of you. This technique is easist if you are lying on your back and he is pushing your legs back and rocking in and out of you (as opposed to lying flat on top pf you). Since you are being stimulated from the inside and out, the likelihood of having an orgasm is higher. Plus it feels so good to have both going on at once.

 

Like chera said:

Just stick it up yer butt.

Also, if you ever uhh... need anything, I'm here for you....

 

I could never even almost fake an anal orgasm. Nothing is going near my ass, ever.

 

I hope you don't get negged for this

 

I haven't yet but I wouldn't be surprised if I did. People seem really intense with their ass adventures these days.

But I have my reasons

 

Haha i was a little worried you'd take this the wrong way. You can have your reasons, you don't need to justify yourself, some people arent into that and its ok.

 

Only about 20% of women can orgasm from penetration alone. You have to be really aroused, have your clit stimulated and then directly massage the g-spot to have an internal multiple orgasm; which a penis usually passes by... You need sexual tension and arousal from foreplay to make the g-spot area swell with blood and fluid; which makes it become pronounced enough to stimulate. You know you are horny and ready for penetration when you get the 'pussy quivers' like the waves of tightness in your abdomen and a feeling of needing to pee. If you or your partner is good enough at stimulating you then you can have a female ejaculation that way...

 

As already said the female orgasm is incredibly elusive. Although most women can climax perfectly well by themselves, partner sex is more complicated.

Few techniques that have worked for me to achieve orgasm through penetrative sex are: Coital Alignment Technique: It is a revised missionary position that tilts the pelvis forward. It is "Designed" to improve a woman's chance of experiencing orgasm during intercourse.

Or another way is put a few pillows underneath your booty while in missionary position with you lying arched backwards while wrapping your legs around his waist. Higher you are to him the deeper the penetration will be. Plus when he is thrusting inside he is also directly hitting your clit. Double pleasure.

However I love sex as much as I love my own mother [But obviously in very different ways]

I can't really speak on anal sex, as I never have tried it. Definately a no enter zone but each to their own.^^

 

I have. Only with one person and not always. I'm happy with any kind of orgasm .

You and your partner need to work together at it. That sounds like a chore lol, but what I mean is get to know each other and what works for you. Find positions where he hits your g-spot and that will eventually get you there, but don't stress thinking "maybe I can't have one", because your own mind will keep you from having one.

I find orgasm from penetration to be a lot more intense because there's such a build up to get there. I think they're more fun, well I don't know about that. I like them both, better combined lol

I haven't had enough anal sex to talk about anal orgasms.

 

It's crazy, even when I'm not the one to bring it up, the topic of sticking things up wild-flowers' butt just tends to come up a lot.

But I do bring it up a lot.