I didn't know where to put this, but I'd just like to share this revelation with all of you. The acceptance that we're all in a chaotic world really helped me in my life. We like to think that we're capable of avoiding pain, and we're able to change everything in our lives.. but in reality we're at the mercy of the universe.. not vice versa. Accepting that we aren't responsible for alot of things that happen to us, and that we can only move on and brush off our shoulders.. Accepting that this world is not structured, no matter how we try to make it and that nothing should be taken granted for.. that everything good that happens to us should be cherished, because the universe doesn't owe us anything. So the world... it can be bad to us.. but we can at least be good to each other and to ourselves... that's the least we can do! Even if someone is bad to you, it's not worth getting upset about (unless its really serious), mostly because we can never change that person, we can only change ourselves and help them understand why. I know I can't always carry these revelations with me in my life, and that I will infact forget from time to time how blessed I really am in this world, take things for granted and become selfish yet again. All I can really do Is all that I can do, and it's best to leave it at that. :sunny: