Sex is a lot of give and take, that's true. But there are just no fly zones for some people. I am not doubting your love, but sensibility dictates that because you love her, you shouldn't let it shake you. There is talking to her, and if she won't do it then that's fine. You are looking at it wrong in the sense of thinking. If you're willing to die for her that is wonderful and a hallmark of love. But expecting something in a quid pro quo fashion is not a requirement. We all have our drawing lines and it seems that is hers. You must respect that.
If you go down on her and lick her clit etc. usually don't. Tell her honestly you don't like the taste or anything but do it for her pleasure. If she still says no she is incompatible and dump her.
don't get her a diamond! she might be ethically obligated *not* to blow you if you did! https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=JsfwEj6yqSA please note, I just found this vid and I don't have independant verification of its claims
I would suggest hiring a therapist, and finding out why you are so set on cumming in a girls mouth. You can cum in her vagina or her hand, probably on her breasts and maybe in her ass, but for some reason you are set on having the one thing she doesn't want. This is a very serious issue, not easily overcome, probably cemented in your mind because of the porn you watch. So you have a 3 choices, the way I see it. 1) Knock her over the head with a brick and have your way with her while she is unconcious or dead. 2) Leave her and find someone else, maybe a man who would love to have your cum in his mouth. 3) Hire a therapist to help you get over your fetish, and stop watching porn.
talk to her about it. But if she still won't go for it then let it go. seriously, be happy she'll blow you at all. Because that can stop. and tasting a woman is NOTHING like having hot snot shot into your mouth...so those comparing eating her pussy and "tasting" that being the same as taking a load in the mouth..because it's a stupid, and completely inaccurate, comparison.
True that! From my personal experiences, pussy juices taste FAR better and lighter than cum, plus the texture isn't all gooey.
Another sexual incompatability thread.... It's not WRONG to want a partner to do certain things. It's wrong to force them to do it, but wanting it is OK. Just as a girl might want a tall guy, or one who doesn't have a beard, and a guy may prefer a big girl, or a skinny one. Wanting a girl who swallows/does anal/loves porn or whatever isn't WRONG. It's your choice. Find a girl whose personality traits, appearance and sexual appetites match your own. Don't-as many of us have tried- find a nice cute girl and think you can talk her into changing her attitude to sex. You usually can't.
