Personal masturbation help

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  1. Masturbationquestion

    Masturbationquestion Guest

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    I am 15 and have been masturbating since I was about 14 its also good to know that I have a fairly good amount of time home alone, and what always happens is that after I cum I feel really bad and think that its extremely wrong then I go take a shower. So then for a few days I don't masturbate, but I get a lot of sexual tension built up and the slightest thing makes me really horny. I really do enjoy masturbating, I watch porn, and do I need a way to get over these bad bad feelings. Also I don't want anything about religion, how masturbating is good for you, or to go get laid because frankly I think its just to early for me to have sex. I would also like ways to make masturbating more personal and feel better, so that its not just a thing where I go grab my dick and jack off then cum and its all over. Thank you for your answers because this really is problem for me.
     
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    some males, even female start out that why.. There is nothing to be to worried about. Probably better you just clean up, feel your shame, do it again tomorrow..... It should go away after a while, now that you are talking about it in anonymous forum, maybe some the feelings will get better. There is also a lot of chemical changes in the mind after orgasm. I love sex, playing with myself. But even after all these years after the deed is done, I sometimes feel what did I do that for. Depending on how clean you are, it shouldnt be that bad. laying nude pictures all over your bed and needing to clean them up fast when someone knocks can cause anxiety even after you have orgasmed...
     
  3. andr5036

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    There is absolutely no reason for feeling bad. Even though I think it is very common, because of all kinds of reasons. Embarrassment because you think you're the only one who does it, maybe you feel guilty for some reason, maybe you feel masturbation is the same as abandoning God, because someone say it is so according to the Bible. I can only say it like this, even though I know you did not want to hear it; It is natural. Nearly everyone at your age does it. I does it, and I'm a hardcore Christian, and I do it. I have found porn on my most geeky classmate's computer. You can be pretty damned sure that your parents, uncles and aunts etc. did it when they were teenagers (and probably still do it on the occasion). As with all the adults around you. Teachers, bus drivers, mailmen, celebrities, reverends, librarians, doctors (and the list goes on). As with the people your age around you. Classmates, siblings, cousins, friends and so on. They probably don't talk about it, or simply pretend it does not exist at all. But it does. You do it. You probably won't stop for some years. I won't. It nice. I enjoy it. I hear you enjoy it. That's the only thing that matters. If you enjoy it, and it does not hurt anyone, not now, not in the future, then what is the problem? That's my point of view.
     
  4. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    use a towel or something
     
  5. PineMan

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    For some reason this thread got me wondering about the Royal Family. I have absolutely no doubt that they all masturbate, just the same as the rest of us. After all, as well as being highly desirable, it's also a perfectly natural & healthy activity - both physically & mentally. However, I can't help but wonder if any of them have their own collections of sex toys - and if so, are the manufacturers entitled to put the "By Royal Appointment" logo on their products?
     
  6. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    stolen joke

    i got caught masturbating to national geographic magazine....

    ..i dont know who was more embarrassed....

    ..me...?

    ...or my dentist..?
     
  7. ryan!

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    I used to do it couple of times a day. I still do it, now couple of times a week, other primates do it.
    As long as you are enjoying it keep doing it. The feeling from a good release is fantastic, the same explosive feeling does reduce as you get older.

    I will add one other thing, when you find a partner, you may need to take measures to make sure that you are not totally dependent on your hands and can enjoy other sensations.

    I cannot wait for the day when I can openly say that I had a great time masturbating, just like saying I had a great game at hockey.
     
  8. PineMan

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    Not just primates. Believe it or not, even whales are known to masturbate. Apparently there's a shoreline they regularly make for which is made of particularly smooth pebbles. They then allow their dorks (the correct term for a whale's penis) to drag along the sea bed, stimulating themselves in the process.
    (Taken from: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Animal_sexual_behaviour)
     
  9. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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    OK kid. Here's the difference between High School and College.

    In high school you are considered a loser if you admit to masturbating. In college you are considered a loser if you deny masturbating.

    Generally speaking at your age (and older) the guy who jerks off the most is the guy who denies it the loudest.

    As for the weird guilt thing. You'll probably get over it.

    Stay Brown,
    Rev J
     
  10. Cutted

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    Look at it this way - once you have reached puberty, your testicles start to produce many millions of sperm each day. They have to go somewhere, either by wet dream, intercourse or masturbation. Most guys stop having wet dreams in the early years after they reach puberty - it is messy, and it is replaced by masturbation on a regular basis, at least every three or four days. Later on, in the late teens, intercourse may replace masturbation, but never entirely. So look at it as a matter of necessity for your good health, not something to be ashamed of.
     
  11. hitman73

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    As a boy masturbating i also felt feelings of guilt when i was your age, and maybe a little younger. Now i have mutual masturbation sessions with my lady!
    I got over feeling bad about it after a while, u will too. It feels good so why not? its a natural part of growing up.
    For some variation try using oil and sliding up and down slowly, feel your body and cry out when you cum. Perhaps create a sex simulator to not just pull, but to move your body to it?
    Good Luck :)
     
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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NMIOmv6Qbbg
    ^^ sorry but that's a great song.
    Nothing to be ashamed of man, understand your desires, do not be ashamed of being yourself. And if you don't like the dirty part, just do it in the shower ^^
     
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    Hell i love having a wank and shooting on my stomach. I love havinga wank even more and shooting on my ladies tits!
     
  14. magzine2

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    i have seen in a sex journal that masturbation is a vigorous muscular exercise.i agree with this and in my early teens i too felt guilty after i had ejaculated.i think the guilt factor is associated with the tiredness masturbation produces.in my early teens,i would just lie after ejaculating and maybe fall asleep.you get used to it as we will all tell you!
     

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