Hi there. I'm thinking of contacting an ex. I guess he is not really an "ex" since we were never officially together as in referring to each other as b/f-g/f. We met last year around this time and he chased me like crazy but I wasn't interested. After finally giving him a chance I got hooked. He was so much fun and we had a really great summer. The problem was he had only been divorced 5 months and his ex wife was still causing a lot of drama in his life. I found it hard to deal with since it turned him from the happy-go-lucky guy I first met to him being preoccupied and stressed. So I ended it last September. Now that summer is coming I keep thinking of him and how much fun we had. I thought of maybe sending a text to say hi and that he's welcome to come hang by my pool again if he'd like. I guess the down side is that I know I have feelings for him. I started to really care for him and his daughter and although he treated me really well and said amazing things I found that he was somewhat closed off to the idea of a relationship. What do you think, should I get back in touch or not?
Maybe now several months later, he won't be so closed off from the idea of a relationship. If you still cant forget about him, contact him. Don't ever try and confine love, submit to it. Get in touch with him.
People that have gone through a bad or messy break up do have issues with no wanting to get into another relationship right away. Im sure given time things would change. So I would give him a call and see how things go from there. Goodluck
Contact him. Could be worth a try. He might be unavailable though. Be prepared to meet a closed door. When I first got divorced, I chased a woman I was crazy about. She never did respond and I moved on. Then after I got remarried, this woman I was very hot into, shot me a text and I was just about out of my mind thinking that I now have the chance, but can't take it.. Jump in with both feet. Give it a try..
