This guy and me were casually having sex for a few years and i really liked him so much i thought i was in love with him. But he blew me off a lot and i knew he was fucking other people but he acted like he cared about me a lot and i didnt think someone would go on that long just fucking someone acting the way he did because of how emotionally wreaking that could be. well anyway he was driving me crazy because he started to yell a lot so i stopped talking to him it was really hard and now i dont find anyone attractive and i can't imagine myself with anyone, and i think its been long enough so i should be able to get back in the swing of things. would you consider that being "in love" just wondering
I agree with political squaw. I think you are emotionally exhausted because your feelings got beat up for so long from the same person. It does take a lot of time...I was in a toxic relationship and I didn't stop it even after the actual "relationship" ended. After a long time (probably 2 years of on and off), I finally fell for someone else and it is still difficult on some days for me, but I waited and let myself fall out of the situation. So just give it time and good luck
There is only one thing to do in a situation like that is to move on..he's no good for u hun. Good luck.
I was in a toxic relationship on and off for 4 years. I've spent the last couple of years being single and getting my sanity back. These things take time. I'm just now to the point where I can actually think of being in a relationship and allowing myself to be vulnerable with another guy. Just give yourself some time and don't rush it. There's nothing wrong with taking months or even years for yourself. I think my ex might be gay too lol. I think a lot of men that mistreat women are probably closet homosexuals.
yes, and good for you! are you all together now? it took me a long time to realize what a horrible situation it was. but all better now!
I'm sure this guy liked you a lot, but obviously not as much as you did. I know how frustrating it is to have the thing you really want just out of reach. It blinds you to the reality of the situation which is that long term you two would not work out. Of course it is hard to move on with you life. Accepting the situation is the key to getting over it. Reframe it in your mind that it has given you experience for the future and you'll know to find out if a guy is serious earlier on next time (though not straight away.) Also, find the funny side. You were silly wasting all that time on that guy but it's over now so you might as well laugh about it. So that's three ways to help you get over a bad break up. Acceptance, reframing it as a good thing and humour. Use those and you won't feel that bad for that long.
yes, and excellent for you! are you all together now? it took me a while to recognize what a awful scenario it was. but all better now.:2thumbsup:
Do you know Is it love Love is an sentiment of a strong care and personal connection. Love is also a quality representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection; and "the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another.
:sunny::sunny: I do not think anyone ever has loved me not my mother, father, a friend or even the man I am married too. I never get any thing I want I have had a lot of physical pain. I rarely ever smile . I like to be called sunshine sometimes. I have a little boy that lives with his Grandma I do not think she loves him either. I pray , pray, pray, Sometimes I want to cry and I do. Last week was a hard week for me. My husband tried to get me arrested and he went to Cypress Creek hospital they took the shoe strings out of His tennis shoes and said I was bad. I pray that the Lord helps me get some friends that really love me like the rainbow family and some peace that is true peace and that I someday can have someone that believes in me and get my dreams fulfilled of love, peace, and compasion and be minister and also work and be able to buy a house and a car which I need. I want friends. Would you , the readers of this passage, be my true love friends.? I would really appreciate prayers, true encouragement and more friends, and more friends, even if they are just by compute or in person. I have a picture of me posted to get to know me better by. thank you for the time you have given me today and please love and care about me. from love me, Nanette T.:sunny:
