Anal too often and now I'm sore--

Usually do it about once a week. It's been more frequent the past couple of weeks and now I'm sore. I've tried warm compresses, ice pack thing and still sore. I know my dh is going to want to do it again this weekend. Any suggestions?

Thanks!

 

Sounds like your ass needs a break! If you want the fun to come back, you gotta give yourself the time needed to recover.

 

Well, that's no fun. :bigcry:

Yeah, I gotta tell dh that it's gonna be straight sex for awhile. Poor guy. Poor me!

 

I know it's not fun, but that little sacrifice will pay back lots in the long run.

 

She speaks the truth. If you want the goods, you must keep spreading your asshole wide apart for your man. Otherwise, you will have to buy things with your own money. Deal with it, Toots!

 

this is probably the first i've repeatedly heard vaginal intercourse referred to as "not fun."

what the hell's a dh? all i can think of is dickhead.

 

Ahah well it's fun! I couldn't get rid of vag sex, but having to slow down on anal isn't fun. That was the "sacrifice" part, having to take a break to better take it in the ass when said ass is not sore anymore.

LOL

 

@backdoorman--I'm pretty submissive to dh's wants; we'll see how I feel when the opportunity presents itself again.

@i'minmyunderwear--Never said vaginal sex wasn't fun! We enjoy it both ways.

dh = dear husband, common abbreviation in forum land (thought it was common anyway)

 

LOL @nateman

We needed some fun police, for sure. What was I thinking? :devil:

 

Anal sex can be great and healthy fun! But you need to be careful, the anus is very fragile/delicate. it's not meant to handle a "pounding" like the vagina is. Best thing to do is to eat a lot of fruit or fruit juice to make passing food easier and less painful. Within a few days it should feel right as rain. If you don't tell your husband to hold back a bit he can end up doing some damage if he isn't careful. One thing that might help if you aren't already doing so is copious amount of lubricant!

 

It sounds like DH needs to kiss it better...

 

Try to have a week without anal and then when you continue with this habit just relax yourself the most and voila!

 

yeah if he wants it u can put up with some soreness , i did and even though our relationship didnt work out i know it wasnt because i was being selfish