i've been dating a guy for nine months and i've fallen in love with him.Hes moving about 45 minutes from where i live to go to college, so he wants to break up. In two years, ill be going there too and he says he'll wait for me in two years but idk if i should believe it or not. should i keep my hopes up or find a new love? i neeeeeed help
One night soundly asleep in my bed i was awoken by a strange noise !!! I realised the sound were stones hitting my window so i jumped out of bed to see what was going on !!! There below was my girl who had driven 2 hours just so we could make love and be together for a while. This was my first "true love" and i will never forget her. If you actually are BOTH in love distance wont be the deciding factor good luck
i hate being single, i like knowing someones there for me. well i know hes gonna wanna have sex with other girls thats why were taking a 'break' when he moves, but after?
I think you should do the same thing he is doing: keep him as someone you can possibly go back to in the future, but save it as a reserve and look elsewhere.
So true, I've been away from my girl of 18 years for 1 yr and 3 months and still want to be with her constantly. Our arrangement is weird, but still, we want each other more and more the longer the absence is. Breaking up because of distance is total bullshit, move the fawk on!!!
What he said: "Listen honey, I'm going to go to a college far away from here for a couple of years. We're not going to be able to see each other and I really don't want you to worry about me while I'm gone. I know this is going to be hard on you but I want you to know that I'll wait for you" What it REALLY means: "Babe, I'm going to college. It's not all that far away but the thing is there's going to be loads of crazy parties and I just wanna fuck every piece of ass I can get my hands on ... Ya know, these times just ain't comin' back. But I promise you this: You keep your snatch clean, grow up to be a beautiful model, and in two years time I'll give it some serious thought, all right? Oh, and you should really learn to deepthroat. Seriously." You really DO need help.
45 minutes is really not far at all! He wants to break up with you for some other reason. I mean really, I drive 45 minutes 1 way to get ice cream.. I would suggest you find out the real reason for him wanting to break up. IMHO, College = Parties = lots of sex = not wanting to be tied down... I may be wrong and I am a lot, but something doesn't jive
I think it would be good for you to explore why you need someone to be there for you instead of knowing that you can be there for you.
This and other posts in the thread kinda translate to "I have dependency issues" or "I can't handle being independent" Which is why people are saying things like this: Which also explains why you would even be asking this question, when the guy totally dissed you. If your posts imply an accurate depiction and you don't work out your issues, you're not very likely to ever land a good relationship, because you'll be too busy having "good-enough" relationships.
Tell him to get lost and move on. I can't believe he wants to break up with you just because you'll be 45 minutes away from one another. That's rediculous! He doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, send him packing! You'll find someone else to be in a relationship with, don't worry.
We create patterns in our lives if you do not want to be a serial relationship finder please deal with your issues now before you lead a desperate life of trying to find a relationship with someone who will leave you again and again. You will if you don't deal with yourself first.
