I was wondering whether anyone has ever had their head pushed down by their partner to make you perform oral sex. When I was still a virgin, my girlfriend grabbed my head as we were making out and pushed it into her pussy. I find this incredibly arousing, and love when it happens. Has anyone else experienced this? Do you do it to your partner?
yeah I've had it done to me before haha. sometimes its ok.. other times when im being lazy I'm like "i cant believe you just did that" :rofl:
I agree with Nateman. I'm usually going to give the man I'm with oral sex anyway, as a part of foreplay, and I can usually sense when he wants me to go all the way to the cum that way. If I miss that intuitive signal, though, which is rare, I like for him to just ask me for more. As for me, for some reason my guys like for me to cum first with oral, and then again with intercourse - which suits me fine.
i've heard of guys doing that to girls, but not the other way around. kind of douchey, but as long as she had a clean vag i think it would be kind of hot too. less pressure to get you off during sex if it already happened during oral.
I do that often ahah! I wondered while I was doing it if it was rude, but was always too drunk to care lol
Guess I should have added that dh/I have been married for over 30 years so the long term commitment, trust thing "probably" plays a big part.
It's all based upon preference! Some people love being dominated in this sense while others hate it and would prefer verbal communication. I had a girlfriend who loved to be dominated so I wouldn't hesitate to do so, but others might not like it so much. If you are good, you can read the reaction they give as you place your hand on their head without any force.
There are chicks that love this sorta thing, like to be gagged and forcefully face fucked. My attitude is if that's what she wants...Otherwise I am just as happy to lay back and hold her hair and watch her do her thang.
Don't think the idea was 'forcing' exactly. Using force can be a serious turn-on, if you and your partner like it. My wife doesn't much like me pushing her head down, but does like it when I grab her hair and push/pull. Small difference in application - huge difference in reaction.
I have had it done on me and it's a really big turn off for me. It actually makes me mad. It makes me feel like I'm not going down far enough and it makes me feel bad.
Don't forget that there are also bitches who deserve that sort of thing for being conniving and selfish to the men who love them. The simplest solution would be to walk away, but sometimes one cannot resist the temptation to teach the bitch a lesson.
I don’t like to be involved when someone is sucking me off like it’s called a blow JOB for a reason and u know do ur job well lol. If I have to touch you in any way you are doing something wrong and I am trying to teach u how. It is really awkward when I have to tell a girl how to do it cause then she is like how do u know how to do this. Strap ons are so much fun.
I like my husband to hold me down, but then we're kinksters. It's not the same thing. Me, I don't like receiving oral as much as giving so I don't hold his head. Usually, I'm trying not to giggle... I'm REALLY ticklish, and he has facial hair, but he loves to lick pussy so...
It's happened to me when I was younger, but not anymore. I have mixed emotions about when someone pushes my head back and forth while I'm already down there. Sometimes I'm glad for the feedback, sometimes I'm like "dude, I've done this a few times, I KNOW what I'm doing!", LOL!