First gay experience

Disaster. Met through craigslist, he looked good from his picture but when I met him it was totally different. He didn't shave so his stuble kept pricking my face it was such a turn off. Kissing, he did this weird position with his tongue pointed out and his lips warped around it, blah. Half way through my stomach wasn't feeling that great, my mouth felt dry to enjoy sucking him. I came in his mouth, said thank you and left. I don't know if it was all these factors combined but I didn't really enjoy sucking his cock as much as I thought I would. I think the rest of him turned me off, shrug.

Sigh, that's what I get for rushing things huh? Extremely unsatisfied first experience.

=*(

 

Oh and each time he went downwards on my cock to the base I didn't like his stuble pricking me there too. I always pictured my first kiss with a guy would be slow and passionate but as soon as I felt the stuble and this tongue thing he did I was like this isn't working. He had a nice cock to be honest, not too big, not too small, but I kept gagging and a dry mouth didn't help.

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh whyy meeee lol

 

aww that sux. i would find the stubble thing to be real hot, but the tongue thing :ack2: better luck next time?

 

you don't mind the prickly feeling? i couldnt even feel his lips i think, it was like pointy tongue and stuble pricking my lips.

 

absolutely not. i love it. but then again i like bears so ya

 

87 Bubba, try to meet someone in person before you ever even think about sex. Craiglist sex is about like buying a car without seeing it first...you never can tell how its gonna ride. The euphenism of making love for having sex is real important. You gotta find someone that will satisfy you on all kinds of levels other than just having the right kind of genitals. Find a way to hit your mental "delete" button and start over with this. Don't even think about being sexually active with someone the first time you meet them. Get to know the person, the mind and soul of the guy...most all genitals can be satisfying if they're attached to a person of quality. I wish this had gone better for you but no harm done...you've learned something. Please take time to respect yourself and your own needs before you find another sexual mate. Good luck to you.

As an added thought find someone to gently seduce you, to play with you, to prepare you for the joy of making love...not just sticking tab A into slot B.

 

Yeah, no more craigslist for me, I'll wait to go on dates =)

 

........be careful just meeting random people. He could give you a disease from just sucking your dick (seriously people can get gonoreah and syphillis in their throat). Sorry you had a bad experience but maybe if you meet somebody and get to know them a little better you'll feel more comfortable with them and then the sexual experience will be better too. You could try a dating website. I think craigslist is super shady these days. I have friends who have gotten the worst apartment and roomate arrangements. Its like half the people advertising on there are crazy now.

 

Yeah damn sorry. I dont know what to say except dont trust craigslist unless you don't give a fuck about the other guy

 

stubble on a guy is fucking hot. that alone would be enough to get me going.

 

The world is full of persons just like yourself wanting that which makes life complete. By that I mean that we all need someone else to make our life complete. The best advice is to be open to other persons. As one who has known love on both ends of his sexuality, I urge you to be friendly with men and women. You do not know what may happen. Some friendships quickly become more than friendships and that is when sex can happen naturally and seem so right. Both parties ideally come to the point where they want and need the kind of expression of their affection that sexual activity allows.

Avoid Craiglist; you have better prospects walking by you every day. Remember, that not all friendships have a sexual element but such friendships are nonetheless important.

When the sex happens, do take the time to talk it over. Your bodies say things in sex, but it helps to take time to put into words what you have just experienced when you first have sex and each time thereafter. That bonus is something which no amount of casual sex can provide.

Sex without commitment is less satisfactory than a solo session could be. No one ought to use another person merely to "get off" and no one ought to allow himself or herself to to be used in that way.

Whether it is a first gay experience or a heterosexual first experience the approach, IMHO, should be the same.

Whether gay or straight it is a good idea to wean oneself from concentration on the tinsel and firecracker aspects of sex so that one can begin to appreciate the whole range of the beauty and the mystery of human sexuality.

 

I fucking love stubble, but am not a fan of the "spear tongue".

In general I don't kiss casual sex encounter boys.

 

That's the reason I'm nervous to have my first experience, haha.

 

I have stubble, I always have stubble

there's absolutely nothing wrong with stubble

 

hey i use to know a bear he he damn that was 1 big ass dude he was ok in my book no i am not gay i just have some gay freinds i am married to a chick and we have 3 kids he he

 

I think it was the spear tongue that kinda threw me off so i couldnt enjoy the stubble, haha

 

might be. cause stubble is highly enjoyable didn't you tell him to relax his tongue a little or something?

 

rofl i should have but i was reallly nervous being my first time haha

 

My first and only experience thus far, even though I think about it now due for certain reasons, was pretty good from what I remember but I was young and don't remember much. It was a friend and we went under the house and second time in the loft of the garage.