:) madly in love

You don't think I need to be depressed by it, well no you wouldn't, would you?

Besides, my comment was made in good humour (although I was serious about it depressing me), and was agreeing with someone else. Why highlight my post for? Just to make me feel even worse about myself? Yes, jealousy is an ugly thing, so I guess I can just add one more thing to my long list of undesireable traits. If being jealous and depressed because I'll never find love or happiness makes me a bad person, then so be it. I'm only human, I'm not a saint.

 

I don't think e7m8 was trying to make you feel bad at all. He was just trying to say that the op wasn't boasting and didn't intend to make you feel bad. I think the last thing he was trying to do was make you feel bad about yourself, if anything it was to make you feel better. It didn't work, but the intentions were there.

Anyway, you're far from being a bad person.

 

^ yes, thank you

sorry! was trying to help!

I don't think that jealousy is necessarily an ugly thing. to some degree I think that it is just a natural reaction

I think I said that trying to use one's own happiness to make others jealous is an ugly thing. I also wasn't saying that PD was doing this btw, I was just saying that sometimes I think that people do such things

I think it is possible to change your perspective so as to be less jealous. I think the less jealous you become, the more happy you can be!

I never said that you were a bad person. please stop telling yourself that you can't be happy! what we tell ourselves often becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy

you said this in an earlier quote. doesn't sound to me like you are a bad person. rather noble and admirable, really

I think that the potential for your happiness is there. maybe instead of a negative thing, this post could be something that can help you find the love and happiness you want?

some therapy might help you change your outlook. look earnestly for love and perhaps you will find it. you have to believe that you can find it though, I think that's the only way

 

Oh no sweetie - I was just reiterating what you were saying - sorry if it came out wrong. I aint mad at ya doll Hugssss!

 

Oh no sweetie - I was just reiterating what you were saying - sorry if it came out wrong. I aint mad at ya doll Hugssss!

 

And to anyone I offended, I am sooo sorry. I didn't mean to make anyone bitter, jealous, depressed, none of that. I was just reading the posts in this section and thought I'd share a piece of my story. In NO way did I do it with mean intentions.

And I'm very sorry to anyone I offended or made sad

Big hugs to you all!

 

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Oh, you have nothing to apologize for; you had a positive thread, people responded to it negatively, and you are STILL keeping positive.

You are a cutie and a sweetheart and I salute you. atriot:

 

Who wouldn't be jealous? But I'm happy for you! Gives me hope!

 

someone who has been with their fiance for almost 18 years and the sex has actually gotten even better and they are madly in love?

 

if this person's initial state of satisfaction were lower, or the rate of annual increase less, they still might envy her

on the other hand, even though pd's sex life has been getting better, maybe it started off as "worse than eating toe cheese" and has improved to a state of "still not worth it".

 

wow its really fine to hear.. wish you all the best and may your love grow double when day passes away...