Is My girl friend in love with our room mate?

Hello there hipsters. I am with this girl. We have been together for about 6 months. I met her in a weird way. Me and my friend came to visit his brother, who lives with my now girlfriend. At the time she was engaged to a guy. I was suppose to be just visiting there place but me and her ended up fooling around and to make a long story straight, she left her fiancée to be with me.

Now, while all this was happening she told me that her and her room matefooled around a couple time while she was with his brother. She said she felt real bad. I didn't hold it against her at the time. I told her that it wasn't a big deal. They did have sex or anything. I told her to just be honest with me.
As time went on, she ended up telling me they had sex. Yeah, she thought she told me, but she didn't I felt betrayed.
Now were talking bout getting a place together and she says she wants her room mate to move in with us. She says they've been through alot together and she's all he's got and that he is good to have around cuz he can do alot. They have been living together for 8 years. She says there is no romantic feeling between them. What you guys think?

 

As The Old Saying Goes, Two's Company, Three's A Crowd....

In My Opinion, Tis A Recipe For Disaster, And Nothing Less ....



Cheers Glen.

 

man oh man. . .

 

How do I found out if she has romantic feelings for him?

 

(1)...She's Already BONKED Him.............

(2)...She's Already LIED To You..............

(3)...What More PROOF Do You Want....



Cheers Glen.

 

Ummm. . . . Does this change anything
She was 14/15 and he was twenty. She's 24 now and he's 30
2) She said she will be willing to move with me without him . . . .(but she will probably visit him)
3)They barely talk when they are around each other

 

Why are you with her in the first place? No wonder so many marriage end up in divorce
You should move on on your own, both of you are not ready for a committed relation
Lie cheat what else goes on that you don't know.

 

You are being played and I'm not even sure she realizes she's playing you.

Get the fuck out of there!

 

I agree with Glen-but ya its up to you if u want to pursue this girl any further, you do know she is capable of lies, and god knows what else, but if you love her you love her so i guess it all comes down to that, which makes it your call. Good luck!

 

I speak from experience, and when I say I speak from experience, I'm not just bullshitting just to chime in my two cents. I was ruined by this kind of situation man. It will turn you from solid as stone to 'held together with duct tape' in no time flat. Its not worth it. Its not worth the risk, its not worth your time, its not worth anything you have to put forth. If she isn't into you, you shouldn't give it anymore thought or effort. Please take the advice man, find someone who loves you UNCONDITIONALLY.

Pulling out isn't the 'manliest' of attributes but it sure as hell will save you a lot of trouble. If you want the full shakedown story of my previous experience, PM me. Otherwise just do what instinct tells you, which is to get out!

 

Yeah, if she was 14 when it happened its entirely possible that she only views him platonically now. Even still, you shouldn't put yourself in a living situation like that if you aren't comfortable with it.

 

i don't care how she feels about the roommate. the entire OP was about her cheating on various guys, i'm sure it's not about to stop now.

 

Man, i dont know what to do. I tried to break up with last night and she just feel apart

 

If it walks and quacks like a duck......

 

AHahaha.

Well, it makes him a creepy fucker, and means that she's got all sorts of very deep seated feelings for him ingrained into her personality, and that he's probably got the same, remembering that underage ass he was gettin'.

So yeah.... She's probably fucking him right now, and just wants him closer so it's even easier.

 

That doesn't help any

 

Give me a break! You boned this chick while she was engaged to another guy. You feel betrayed? Get over it!

This girl is using you. Run, don't walk, away from this relationship as fast as you can.

 

If you dangle food in front of a dog sooner or latter he is going to want it and eat it. Move on.

 

You gotta do what's right for you. Stay strong.

I've never broken up so I don't know any specific advice =/

 

Nice dude, high five!

Fool!