How do you feel about COUPLE WATCHING PORN movie?

Do you have any reservations about watching a porn movie with your partner/spouse? If you do, plz explain why?

Also, would you recommend against watching lesbian porn when you are both into straight sex?

 

I think the right kind of porn can be hot. There are just some things that you and your partner can't nessisarily do (gay or lesbian porn when you are in a straight relationship). It also opens up possibilities. Sometimes if you are a little reserved about something it can help make you decide whether it might be something you'd like to try. It can give you ideas that just haven't entered your mind (even if it's not really kinky, just a simple touch or position that just hasn't entered your mind before). I also think it's really hot to watch porn while having sex. The people making sex noises while you are in the moment can heighten the sensations and sounds around you.

I don't usually watch visual porn when I'm by myself. I stick to erotic lit myself. I actually find that the only time porn actually turns me on is if someone I'm with is watching it with me.

 

Thanks. It's funny, since I am a guy I thought watching lesbian stuff would be a good thing to do cause I thought watching hetero sex could give me a competition--she'd be comparing me with how another male performs on the screen or sth, lol. But you point is well taken, I'll think about it. Thanks!

 

Actually, I had a lover once that liked to have "porn star sex." It was quite a turn off, to be honest. He was constantly changing positions and it seemed cold and affectionateless. So there would be no competition for me as far as my lover and the "porn stud" on the screen.

 

I love watching porn together. I have a membership at my local sex shoppe and am a regular renter. I walked in there last weekend with a couple of people and woman behind the counter (the owner, Jess, really nice lass) yelled out hello to me and proceeded to chat about the new bondage gear she'd ordered. I pondered whether it was sad that I was on a first name basis with the sex shoppe owner or not...?

 

Well, I've never watched porn with my husband. While I am an open-minded person, I still get easily embarassed when it comes to watching others perform.

However, I have thought about it. If I could get over my shyness over the issue of watching it with him, I'm sure it would be fun to do on occasion.

 

If your looking to stay together for a long time being open about thing like sex is a good thing if you guys get comfortable whatching porn together you guys will be open to talk about what you like and don't like in the porns and will be better at doing sexually things together...

I do it with my fiance and no regrets here!!!!!

 

It also helps to test boundries. "Is that something that you would ever do?" Usually by body language alone you should be able to tell how your partner responds to certain visuals and ideas.

 

Thanks!!!!Modified the OP some by adding another question...

 

I'm bi, so that may change things, but I LOVE LOVE LOVE lesbian porn. It's so sexy and some of it's really stylish.

 

we have nights were all we do is lay around watch porn and ummm.. you get the point.. it's alot of fun and I think it's healthy for couples to do stuff like that.. I don't get jealous that he watches.. it turns me on more than anything..

 

we watch it a few times a month. We love it. And it helps to find to way to play. We both love it all,,,straight, gay, les, bi, SM, anything except body fluids...

 

I know what you were trying to say but cum is a bodily fluid and cumming is one of the main points of sex (other then the obvious of procreation). ;P

 

We do want to see Cum..thanks for setting me straight Weeble,,,

btw..love the new sig

 

Ok,

My wife has hinted about watching porn. She has admitted to doing it (softcore) beforw we were married. She has admitted to being somewhat bi also, which too she will deny/admitt depending on the day. I would like to include porn as something we can enjoy gotether but, do not want to push the issue. To understand i should explain some background. years ago she was unwilling to try a new toy with me but, then i found out years later she was using it and admitted to liking it. She considers herself to be modern and liberal though she went to catholic schools. She had gotten pissed at me a couple years ago for hiding my use of porn. I am not sure if this is part of her aprehension.

Personally, i find the use of visual stimuli to be incredibly arousing for me (i am a guy duh..LOL) but would like to try and watch together.

I think her hesitancy is based on 3 primary concerns:

1) She may be intimidated how she will compare to the ladies on screen
2) She has intimated that toys, porn can make "ordinary-IE sex without these things seem less pleasurable (I don't agree with this at all)
3) Her good girl/double standard/catholic guilt thing

Appreciate any advice

 

Many couples find it extremely erotic to watch pornography while others may be extremely averse to it. It can be very healthy for a relationship for both parties. t can be used to help each other deal/cope with jealousy issues by understanding that just because you watch a male/female doesn't mean you don't love your partner.

 

My Fiancee and I watch porn together quite often. We both like it. We also have the same taste in porn. Sometimes we masturbate together. Sometimes she goes down on me. Sometimes we fuck. It is something that brings us closer together.

The thing is that no matter how much you love your partner, no matter how commited you are you will find others attractive. This is part of what advertising is based on. This is what our style of dress is based on etc. We know that it is normal to find other people attractive and we accept that.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

What an absolutely grown up way of looking at things. I commend the both of you. Now ain't it too bad the leaders of the world powers can't get it together that well. They don't have the time unfortunately as they're too busy fucking the worlds citizens.

 

I have no problem watching them with any girl as long as they enjoy them. 1 of the current girl I am seeing now really enjoys them.

It is really up to you what you enjoy. Some love the lesbian, other like straight, some even enjoy the darker side.

I guesss it really up to you waht really turns you on.

 

Turns us on! Try and watch and keep your hands to your self. LOL
Lesbian porn is not a problem even for a straight couple.
Tends to play into male fantasies.