i dont think i can orgasm

Hi i am 24 years old and i dont know if i have have had a proper orgasm yet!!!!

i have had 8 sexual partners in my life and have been in my recent realtionship for the past 3 years.I have found my soul mate but i am becoem increasing fridgid abotu havign sex because i dont think i can orgasm!!!
I masturbate often and feel i have a sensitive clit and know know how to enjoy myself through playing with myself rubbing, stimulating and can always build up the sensations to orgasmic like feeling but then once i have done this i dont actually cum.
what i mean to say is that i usally unrine a little but nothign else comes out of inside of me!!!! This is the same when i am with my partner of by myself
what is wrong with me is this natural?
what does women cum meant to actually look like?

confused , frustrated eliza xxx

 

In my experience, depending on the type of orgasm, not much comes outs. If you are looking for cum from a clitoral orgasm, you are wasting your time. In orgasm you may or may not notice an increase in how wet you are, but that is about it, of course everyone is different, but for the most part, if you are trying to determine your orgasm by something coming out then you are looking for the wrong things. Women do not cum the way men do. On the other hand, with proper g-spot stimulation I have found many women to "squirt". Where a fluid comes out, not cum, but more watery and thinner, and not sticky, which might be what you are mistaking for urine. There is urine in that fluid I believe, but it is not urine per-se.

Next time you masturbate, judge based on feeling, not what you see happening down there, but in all seriousness, you should just know when you orgasm, it is a pretty unmistakable feeling. And I am led to believe a womens orgasm is just as unmistakable. Try different ways of masturbating to see what makes you cum, whether clitoral or g-spot, what way of doing it is best for you etc.

If you are concerned about a medical problem preventing you from having an orgasm, please see a doctor. No one here can actually help you if this is the case and a professional will know a lot more then any of us could.

 

mate thankyou so much for that reply you are truley a cool
well i mean i knwo what i feel a rush of wave of euphoria build up in the senses kinda like a tickly sensations that reaches a peak like an deep internal massage
maybe i am ok , but why do i urine everytiem i have taste it definatly a weak version of wee x