I'm a huge douchebag.

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idiot

 

i blame the dog.

 

Well, declaring that in front of everyone def gives u douche points :2thumbsup:
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It`s easy to withstand evil for your wants, much harder is doing evil.

 

You got drunk and made a bad decision...doesn't make you a douchebag, makes you human. Sorry that your girlfriend didn't see it that way. You admitting it was a huge step and if she couldn't get past it and forgive you, it's probably best you guys split. Hopefully you learned a lesson from all of this and hopefully she can learn to be a more forgiving person.

 

are you his girlfriend?

 

Hm, I dunno, it seems as though you deftly made this situation her fault. I don't agree. If someone gets drunk once and cheats, methinks they are more than capable of doing it again. I don't blame her for being upset or splitting, if she does indeed decide to do that.

 

Well, looks like a post recently in the relationship forum where I clearly stated one simple fact...

People need to realize their limits when drinking. Getting drunk and cheating doesn't make it less cheatful in my book

 

Maybe it wasn't really a mistake.


People always use the line, "I was drunk," thus blaming alcohol for their "bad" decisions. If someone did something stupid while drunk, they wanted to do it. The alcohol simply makes one temporarily indifferent to the side effects of their actions.


There's likely a reason sitka was drunk and alone (I presume) with another female to begin with.

 

On the bright side, at least you weren't married with 2.5 children.....Could have been much worse....:-/

 

heh. you got caught.

It'd be a lie if I said I wasn't tempted, but you gotta be above that.

 

What has happened is for the best, though you surely won't agree, yet.

Either as Ramona said; you made a mistake and she was not the type that was kind enough to forgive (or isn't yet).

Or as lunar said; you made a choice while inebriated that reflected unconscious desire/dissatisfaction.

Either way; what has happened is for the best, even though there are much better ways it could have happened.

I wish luck to you and I hope you accept your destiny as readily as you've accepted your responsibility for your actions.

 

Really does it matter now it is in the past it happen and that is the path you wanted to go down at the time.Your love for her must not have been enough to over come your drunkness.

 

Next time get a g/f that wants other "friends" also??? idk what to say

 

Kind enough to forgive?!

 

its like people who are rich...they forget what its like to be poor

 

A mistake is a mistake.

I would never forgive someone who ran away from me and came crawling back.

It would hurt a lot, but I could never be so cold as to dump my love for my girl if she faltered in a moment of passion.

Kind was probably the wrong word

 

She'd never forget it.

 

I was cheated on, and it changes so much. Having sex with someone else, when you claim to be in love with another, is a little more than a 'mistake' in my opinion.

Everyone is different, but if someone decides to have sex with someone else, then they might as well stay there. I am a very kind person, but this just takes the biscuit!

 

tsk tsk, some people have to learn the hard way.