girl who doesn't like receiving oral

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by lokithecat, Jun 7, 2011.

  1. lokithecat

    lokithecat Member

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    Turns out my wife doesn't like receiving oral sex. I had been going down on her for a few years before and she seemed to have wicked orgasms (she's not the type to fake it). She just told me that she's never really been that into it but prefers penetration. I can't imagine a girl not enjoying oral sex, at least from what I've seen and heard. And from other girls I've given it to. They all seemed to enjoy it and said that I was good at it. Many even asked for it.
    Are there other girls that don't enjoy receiving oral? Why not?
    What are their preferences other than oral? Dildos? Straight intercourse? Masturbation?
     
  2. The Backdoor Man

    The Backdoor Man Banned

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    Does she like receiving anal?
     
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    my wife likes to be filled with cock...... not to fond of the licking her pussy thing/.
     
  4. lokithecat

    lokithecat Member

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    She doesn't like anal. She enjoys me teasing in the area but not actually entering her with a finger or my dick.
    She's adventurous in other ways and would let me go down on her but there seems little point if it's not doing it for her.
    Any girls feel this way as well?
     
  5. desireu2

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    As women age their sexual desires and wants unfortunately change .... unfortunately but keep seeking new ways to bring her to full arousal & orgasm ... mine has been in stalemate for about five years now - she thinks she's fat (5'7" 122# & marathon runner), ugly yet she's beautiful, etc. etc. regardless of my attraction and passion for her --- and I am a desirable male ---- maybe someday it will return but I seem to doubt it as she can't take penetration and when we happen to be together (her wifely duty) she pasts about five minutes after I touch her pussy lips and clit which rests just inside her (at this point I am just getting started) .... very frustrating, want so much to have female masturbation partner.
     
  6. The Backdoor Man

    The Backdoor Man Banned

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    Dump her, dude. Don't waste any more time with her.
     
  7. lokithecat

    lokithecat Member

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    I'm not really into anal myself so that part doesn't bother me.
     
  8. Lorii

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    I'm not really fond of recieving oral. like it's just okay for me.
     
  9. lokithecat

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    Why is that Lorii? I'd generally thought that having a tongue caressing down there would be an amazing feeling. Most girls I've been with have really enjoyed it and had what seemed to be intense orgasms.
    Did you ever like receiving oral?
     
  10. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    i guess it's because a women's genitals are inset - it is not quite as intruding for men, to us it's like the sexual equivalent of a fishing trip...

    each guy should ask themselves whether they would be keen for a woman to go down on their ass. it's more comparable, and i bet less would be as keen for it as they would a blowy.
     
  11. lokithecat

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    But intercourse itself is more "intrusive" for women.
    I always figured that made it a more intense and emotional experience.
     
  12. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    well yes, but you aren't looking at their genitals.

    it might be more intense and emotional, but ultimately i guess it just comes down to personal esteem issues.
     
  13. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    I love the "hippy attitude". Its been this way for decades.
    The more things change, the more they are the same.

    "We are hippies. We are free individuals. And if someone is different than we expect, if someone is different than the norm, we use our compasion to find out what is wrong with them. So they can be fixed. So they will be a free individual, just like all of us."

    She doesn't like oral as much as most women. She is an individual.
     
  14. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    i am not a hippie.

    so what you're saying is, is that people aren't entitled to feel insecure? feeling insecure makes them lesser individuals?

    bit of a catch 22 that one.
     
  15. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i used to like scooby doo, now i'm not a big fan. who gives a shit?
     
  16. lokithecat

    lokithecat Member

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    I'm not trying to change her I was just trying to see what people thought of this and if other girls who felt the same about receiving oral sex enjoyed other sensations. Dildos, other sex toys, masturbation...
     
  17. lokithecat

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    If you don't give a shit then don't bother posting.
    That was a pretty bad analogy.
     
  18. Argiope aurantia

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    I enjoy that my husband enjoys going down on me, but I'm not so into it. I have a very specific reason though. I'm TICKLISH! I'm sure if I weren't then it would feel great, but as it is I'm usually trying not to squeal and laugh.

    This is seriously debilitating... :(
     
  19. Shivaya

    Shivaya Y'a rien de trop beau pour la classe ouvrière.

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    File for divorce immediately.
     
  20. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i hate to tell you, but nobody in this thread except you actually cares about your wife's sexual preferences. you basically just told everyone to fuck out of your thread.

    anyway, giving orders to strangers is rarely effective.
     

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