I lost my virginity a few months ago. I was 18 at the time, but now I'm 19. My younger brother who is now 16, lost his when he was 14 or 15. My mom and dad know that he's had sex, and today, my mom was telling him that because he's having pre-marital sex, he's screwed because it's a sin. We are catholic and my mom is religious. Her hearing that now were screwed makes me feel really bad. How do you feel about pre-maarital sex?
Pre-marital sex is not prohibited by my beliefs. Once upon a time it was, but I started to question and look into my old beliefs. I changed my mind. Now, I no longer follow religious beliefs and I'm happier and feel that the world makes more sense to me than it used to.