so I'm taking shrooms over my break next Friday with a girl, which i have never done before i have only done them at party's or with my male friends. its just us alone at her house on shrooms. i want to show her how amazing tripping can be since I'm her friend and i thing we might have something special developing, but i would like to show her how amazing i can be to her and shrooms will tend to loosen up your mind towards that stuff. is there anyone who has impressed someone they like by doing something really magnificent and beautiful during a trip to a girl they really liked? if so what did you do? i don't want to have sex and fuck shit up, i just want to take things slow for awhile...I'm not going to try anything unless she wants some of me thanks HF com. Colasisl'd
i've rolled with this chick i was interested in a couple times, but all that turned out was me saying some stupid ass shit that i should have kept to myself and freaked her out lol
Haha -Good one. Who among us hasn't? But back to Cola's question. I think what you asked here is kind of sweet and maybe in some form or another worth saying to her. I was at a Guild of Guides meeting last year and some people were talking about sex and tripping. Often it gets in the way and in the end, without a loving relationship, may be good, but not worth fucking up a relationship for. So much depends on where both or all the people are at.
purps-damn dude aahaha i feel like i would do that and yea i just want to do something she won't ever forget do she would begin to like me more, rather ten just friend status. if anyone can contribute that's reading this please do so
just trip with her man, don't worry about impressing her, she'll be more impressed with the drug and she'll probably enjoy having you around more if you aren't all up in her head trying to be some cool guy being cool requires you to be cool. relax and just have fun tripping - that is all. whatever else may follow after you guys are coming down.
I took shrooms the 1st time with my husband @ a concert, the best thing to do is not be pushy about it. If she wants to cool, if she is scared may be it is something you should do alone in a controlled area. So she feels safe.
Relax, be cool, and guide her through the experience. Be strong and positive, open and caring. The rest will follow!
A dark room with many some xmas lights or some black lights and some good tripping music and just enjoy the experience together I have always found the hum of the didgeridoo and some drums music to be orgasmic on mushrooms.
well i think you guys have helped me solve the problem, i really forgot about everything about tripping on shrooms and you know some of the most important things are to be calm and relaxed without pushing it. Thanks HF
Show her things that you like to do when you're tripping like listening to a certain singer/band, etc. Be enthusiastic, but also make her feel that she can really "lose herself" in the trip because she knows you'll have her back in case any issues should arise. Thats what I love the most about tripping with my boyfriend...the fact that I know I can count on him. Im new to psycs and have my worries, so he puts in a lot of effort to make sure I have a good experience for each new drug I try, and I absolutely love him for it! Oh one other thing - ATMOSPHERE! Bring some candles or pretty lights, or some nice food (havent done shrooms yet so dunno if people eat while high on them)...some small gesture that a) you know (or think) she will like, and b) emphasizes the effects of the trip (like candlelight hallucinations!) Happy tripping!
I have tripped mushrooms with a Girlfriend, I went up on this hill and we listened to Shpongle Nothing Lasts... on the day that I bought the album. I have also been trip sitter before for a friend taking mushrooms. Basically I played the role of trip sitter on both occasions, if you really want to show her the world of psychedelics just let her trip and enjoy the experience, not really much more beyond that. My girlfriend went through some drastic emotional responses in the first hour after onset when we tripped and like kept on telling me she had to pee but then every time I took her to go pee she said she didn't have to. There's really no 'impressing' that is necessary, mushrooms are impressive enough if set and setting is accounted for. The friend I was trip sitter for who took mushrooms basically was in constant childlike awe the whole experience and seemed to really enjoy herself, she was talking to catepillars and stuff. But I do always feel responsible for when I'm turning someone onto a psychedelic and that detracts from my trip sometimes but I really enjoy turning on others as well.
Its good you enjoy turning others on to psycs, but your "detracts" comment made me think of something else .... OP: Im sure it would suck if someone starts panicking during a trip and you spend the whole time trying to calm them down I was worried I might do that to my bf when we decided to take 3 hits of acid (Thankfully I didnt turn into a screaming, babbling mess) I know there's talk on these forums about 'bad' trips, but Im not trying to go into that, Im just saying I think it helps if people have a bit of information as to what to expect (if they are feeling anxious about the trip, that is). That and (once again) feeling that they are tripping with someone they can trust and rely on should they start to feel like they're getting anxious or upset, etc. AGAIN, not saying it will happen, but in my opinion, while psycs are fun to do, they are powerful tools and need to be respected.
Man, I think you need to re-evaluate your reasons for tripping with her. Are you trying to turn her on to psychedelics, show her a whole new world, etc? Or are you trying to seduce her. Going into a trip with the explicit intent to make her fall for you is just wrong in my opinion. I think you'd be robbing her of certain aspects of the trip by making this trip about you and how you're going to make her fall for you. Since you're the more experienced of the two, its kind of your responsibility to guide her into and out of it. If you want her to ACTUALLY like you then you should do amazing things for/with her while sober, not while shrooming. Just try to make her trip as comfortable and awesome as possible and I'm sure she'll be impressed.
^ yo didn't see that probably going to have to explain myself then. I am NOT trying to seduce her to a sexual state of mind, I am only trying to give her the best intro to psychs. but i am also trying to make myself seem experienced and reliable as well as someone she can turn too. i worded that really badly in the OM thank you people i shall use this info wisely
I feel MTH advice is very good and wise. I would suggest that if you go into it "trying to make yourself seem" like something you're not, that shrooms tend to peel away a facade and might not have a good outcome. Try going into it as yourself and let the experience flow and speak for itself. Perhaps try approaching it as an experience of sharing and as Lilly and Volupta said create a safe space. If you really like this girl, acknowledge that to yourself, try to set that aside and be a friend and tourguide for her. The rest will come if it's meant to.
alright truth is i probably going to be too fucked up to remember any of this when the time comes so ill just be myself, but thanks for all the wonderful advice ill try to remember
i think that taking mushrooms to try to impress a girl is a terrible idea. as is taking mushrooms as an act of trying to become 'more than a friend.' you really shouldn't trip with girls you are interested in unless there is already a strong relationship formed. just my 2c.
I can totally trip with strangers, sounds like a great first date, but am hesitant to with a girl I'm sort of involved with. (we have a checkered past, which of course, has something to do with that) But I have a very easy time being free and easy, open and friendly, but not too much so, with people I don't know, when tripping, as long as it's an even playing field and we're all dosed. If you want to "impress" her with the world, and her mind, and all the rest of that, then tripping's great. If you want to impress her because you're a cool druggie who does far out stuff like magic mushrooms, think again.....
