Why do u gals do that?

I really feel like such a whiner asking this, but jesus, I really need an answer. Ok so here it goes:

Every time I talk with my male friends about stories of blind dates or similar cases arranged by female friends, I always get the same story. Basically it goes like this, male friend asks female friend "hey, your friends are pretty cool, they look interesting and nice , maybe you can hook me up with someone?"

Female friend says "ok sure, I think I have something for you! We'll be in touch"

Few days later, it's all arranged, you go out in pairs or whatever (groups, blind date, who cares). The thing is the girl introduced to you is 99% of the cases UGLY AS SHIT, and I really don't understand why a female FRIEND would introduce someone like that to a male friend. All this is happening KNOWING that the female friend has ABUNDACY of smoking hot friends, and yet she chooses the most antisocial/creepy/ugly one.

My case involves a couple, they wanted me to go out with a girl that THEY THEMSELVES referred to as "Alf" (yea, THAT ugly). I mean cmon...

Based from the fact that I'm a 6.5/10 maybe 7/10 I guess my friends could have done a lot better. And the story doesn't apply to me only, it happens everywhere, all the time.

Soooo... What's up with that? You all got super crazy hot friends and yet you choose the ugly ones for your friends? I wouldn't do that to my female friends. I could go on and on about my theories, like "they get jelous", "they think that you're not good enough for their hot friends", etc. And the kicker is that women DO KNOW when another woman is ugly.

Answers, plz? Sorry about the big wall O' text.

 

maybe you need some better friends..

 

Agreed

 

It's not just MY friends, it's like a common thing where I come from hehe

 

girls lie. if they say their friend is 'beautiful' it means she is lassy

if they say she is alright, she is a babe and they are totally jealous.

 

Maybe their hot friends don't need blind dates..

 

their ugly ones do.

*high five*??????

 

What he said up there,,, :2thumbsup:

 

this could be it too..

 

Send her over to my place pally.

 

or maybe their hot friends already been TAKEN?..no?

 

thats the point..

 

what the fuck is an alf? never heard that one before


and this seems more like a MAN's issue as opposed to a woman's issue....just sayin

 

lol

 

At least it'd be an ugly chick that eats cats instead of hoarding them.

 

whoops my bad

totally was thinking it was an acronym, like MILF or whatever
:sunny:

 

To answer some questions:
Good point about hot friends not needing blind dates and that sort of things but cmon, there's no excuse to meet new people right? . On a side note, you would be amazed to know how many beautiful girls have hard times meeting the right one, hotness doesn't mean insta-boyfriend/steady relationships... Just saying, I could help heh.

I was referring to available hot friends of course, no point in trying to date unavailable ppl?

 

i wouldnt dive into a date with you, pool that shallow i'd break my neck.
if you want 'hot chicks' then pony up the courage to ask them yourself. i never set people up, its not my job to find you a mate, and its imposing on someone else. also keep in mind that some homely girl COULD be the perfect match for you, if your standards werent so exclusive. i dont know where you live or the people you hang out with, but it doesnt sound like a good combo. do you ask a random number generator for a specific number?

or to phrase it differently, beggars cant be choosers. or, rather, they can, but they are chancing that they won't get what they selected. gain the affections of someone else by your own merits.
this does seem like a "men's issue" to me as well.

 

Maybe your friends just want the best for you and are attempting to set you up with a genuinely nice girl, a decent human being with an engaging personality, who can carry an interesting conversation, who would treat you well and care for you, and has a lot going for herself, etc etc even if she may be lacking in the aesthetic department...?



...Nah