So I'm married and have sex with my wife a few times a week assuming life doesn't get in the way. Which it usually does. So I take care of things instead. For whatever reason we don't do other activities. She can't orgasm easily so oral and manual stimulation just turns her on doesn't finish the job. And she says she enjoys handjobs but never offers and I hate asking. Anyway so recently I told her that if we don't have sex, generally I'm taking care of it myself and trying to do it in secret. She told me she would like to be involved. She would like to watch. I said ok but am feeling a bit shy. I use to masturbate with other partners but they would as well. My wife doesn't masturbate...at all. So my question is has anyone had the problem of wanting to masturbate foe their partner and been too shy. And what did you do to resolve? Sent from my DROIDX using Tapatalk
I never had a problem stroking myself when we fooled around. If she wasnt' in the mood, she would tell me to do it myself. I told her I wanted her to watch, so she did. She admitted that she found it boring, but she did want to see when ejaculated. Then I started to do different things to get her attention, which it did. Since we started to use sex toys on me, she has really gotten into watching. Out of all of things we could do or have done in our life, nothing gets her attention like watching a dildo go into my ass. I try to get a rise out of her whenever I give her a show. Taking a big cumshot in the face or in my mouth is entertaining for her. I like showing off to her.
my boyfriend asks me to masturbate in front of him all the time but we've only been dating for 2 months and i still feel kinda uncomfortable doing it in front of him.. it just feels weird doing it while someones watching but i'd love to.
I know how you feel. It'd weird when they just watch and don't participate at all Sent from my DROIDX using Tapatalk
she doesn't masturbate? ever? even when she's alone? if that's true then it's totally understandable that she has trouble getting off women really need to explore their own bodies to understand exactly what it is that does it for them
My wife loves to masturbate. Funny thing is, until we were married and started our sexual experimentation, she had never brought herself off. Now she does it regularly. We have masturbated for each other. It's a huge turn on. One time, she used a cucumber. We went to the grocery store together and she picked it out! That was a very enjoyable evening!
My lady and i started masturbating together fairly recently. I am 37 and had never masturbated with someone or had someone watch me so i felt shy too. But with her doing it also i got into the swing of things and now if she isnt in the mood i will do it in front of her without a second thought. Her opinion is "needs must" so i dont worry about being shy anymore, i just go for it. Good Luck, just do it, remember how good that orgasm feels, and aim for that!! As a bonus, get her to rub your arsehole or put the tip of an oiled finger up you, makes the orgasm fantastic!
It feels so weird to do so in front of my fiance when she isn't in the mood. If i want it and she doesn't she'll tell me to use the toy but still to this day its weird even if she watches. Sometimes she'll help me along but I can't help but feel a little uncomfortable.
My fiance and I masturbate for each other (mutual masturbation) as part of our sexcapades. I love to see her vibrator doing it's thing, especially if I have already cum inside her. If so I get to watch all of our juices run down from her pussy to her ass.
I'm trying to coax my wife in to doing this for me. She's not really that outgoing with things like this though. Any ideas on how to encourage her?
WE both have and enjoy it, it's nto that big of a deal really... Just takes a little trust in each other which should already be there if your married
