I hate girls who aren't on the Pill

Burn!!!!!!!!!

 

Quite the opposite, my good sir.

Women are much more "dangerous", if you will. Not only do they harbor the same STD's and STI's as men, but they can also.... get pregnant and push out a baby.

When they get pregnant there might be certain understandings in place, or whatever. But once they ARE pregnant, they're a law unto themselves, and there's nothing a man can do about it, even though it's considered half his baby.

As such, they BETTER take any and all steps necessary to help prevent this and show good faith in preventing this in the future.

It's a "with great power comes great responsibility" kind of thing. Lots of women want to act like they're just fucking special for this, they carry babies so they make the birth control rules. That's the opposite of how it works. Being a woman is not without it's other perks, it's a two way street. Being able to have babies is not some great gift OR curse, but it CAN be either. And they need to take the birth control steps necessary to make sex not have unintended consequences for them and their partners.

Not to say it's ALL their responsibility. But it's sure as FUCK not all the guys either, by a long shot.

 

Well I don't think women are anymore dangerous than men. The real danger is ignorance, lack of education and being raised to only consider immediate impulses instead of longterm consequences.

If I might interject a little controversy,

My wife and I raised our children to avoid condom use as much as possible. Our values are such is that sex is a natural and human-to-human contact is as essential for life as air and water. But we also taught our children responsiblity and educated them on what STDs are and the most common treatments available. And despite our personal beliefs that AIDS is a lie, we went as far as to show them both sides of the AIDS debate.

We also never hid from them the fact we were swingers. They knew what we were doing, what clubs we were visiting and very often they even knew the people we were having sex with. (We just never did these things in front of them)

They were never forced to hide their sexuality from us. If our daughter or our sons wanted to have sex, they could do so in the privacy of their own rooms. And whomever they spent the night with was allowed to join us for breakie.

Our daughter made her own decision about birth control. She sat down with her mother, they examined all the pros and cons and then made a doctor's appointment. She did this before she ever had sex. As for our sons, they had similar conversations with me. But in our situation the point was made that, "Talk about it with your partner before you do it and if there's any doubt, then don't have sex."

Practising this attitude of sexual openess was very often difficult. For example our oldest son's first sexual encounter was a gay one. None of us were prepared for that possibility. But a couple of deep breaths and insisting we have "the conversation" made love grow in the family and united us even more. (When you're born and raised in a bible belt, the possiblity your son might be gay or bisexual just isn't something you think about)

Our daughter once dated a friend of mine. It's hard being objective and understanding when your fishing buddy is sleeping with your daughter. However once again, we had the must have conversation and we were better for it. (But I still admit to being very happy when they broke up)

There never was an unwanted pregnancy in our family. All of our children finished college and went on to raise similar healthy children. There has never been a divorce in our family. But that's because none of them got married. However, they have all remained with the same life partners of their choosing.

The point I'm making here is that we attacked the ignorance and we attacked the social belief that sex is filthy.

Therfore liking or not liking the pill is a woman's personal decision. All women should be made aware of their choices in birth control. As for men, they need to learn that they should be assuming the responsiblity for a sex act before it happens and not worrying about it after the fact.

 

Wooooo Dude. Are you serious ?
I've seen first hand how the hormones in the pill screw up a girl's system. Worst effect i've seen is that they can totally destroy libido! That's not a good thing - for her or her guy!

My approach - vasectomy. No worry about if she's on the pill or not.

 

200% agree with you on that one!

 

Hate is such a strong word...

But... I do get a bit tired of the water-works over stupid little things.
It's like... where's the emotional off switch on these ladies?

I don't mind some emotions, but excess of it makes me kinda... upset.

I'm a pretty good talker too, but sometimes the constant emotions is such a drain on a guy. I feel like some women aren't just emotional, they're childish!
Straight up need-to-grow-up.

But... with the bitter comes a nice sweetness that surprises you from time to time. Doesn't mean you can get off the eggshells though.

So if you're a female... I mean, it's alright to talk it through with people... but for God's sake there's only so much a guy can take! Especially when he's going through some pretty rough times and you are crying over a work schedule or a telivision show or something.

Lol, I feel so sexist saying all this though... I'm just putting personal experience before reality again. Infact I know some women who are tougher than nails, put me to shame by far!

 

Ignorant OP is ignorant.

 

Personally, I think sex should be banned FOR EVERYONE but maybe that's just because I haven't had any in over a year. Actually I do think that reproductive sex should be banned but that's a whole other kettle of fish.

I hate the idea of ANYONE messing with their bodies and I wish girls wouldn't take the pill, unless they really need it for medical treatment of some sort but even then I'd prefer something natural. I'd say it has added to the spread of sexual diseases as some people see it as a golden ticket. It is also a very strange cause of interrupting natural eco-systems, as women who take the pill eventually excrete the hormones which make their way down the sewage pipes to the ocean where they effect everything from tiny plankton to the fish we eat, which of course means it effects us, too. The biggest effects of all these feminine hormones going about where they shouldn't are 1) More girls, which isn't really a bad thing BUT 2) Femininity in men. I don't have a problem with feminine men but it's not healthy when feminine hormones effect the development of males too much.

So, with this pill we are poisoning ourselves and everything else, spreading more disease than ever and OH WHAT SURPRISE the same old huge drug companies are making shit loads of money from it. And most people aren't even aware what's in the bloody things!!! It could be ANYTHING, as it often is!!

Saying that, I won't use a condom if I can get away with it. I love getting my dick wet. I've had to take meds ONCE for an NSU (non-specified urethritis, which means it might not have even been an STI, just something that they didn't recognise) because I dutifully get myself checked up if she's not a long term partner and always before I shag her brains out if she will be a long term partner. You'll be glad to know that since the NSU I've had no sex at all.

Really, I would have to say that I wish people were just honest with each other about sex and everyone was less slutty and prepared to get medical check-ups rather than spreading their genital warts. If only we humans were actually responsible instead of childish little idiots.

 

Contraceptives are there to protect you from H.I.V. And A.I.D.S. and whatever nasty ass disease you are at risk of catching.

It's better to take a damn pill(some have lower hormone effects than others)...than spending $750 to $950 on a abortion later.

There should be some type of law that says people on welfare...HAVE to be on birth control. It makes no sense to bring innocent unwanted children into the world...just to collect a check.

If you cant afford the responsibilty...just take the damn pill or wear a rubber...so later somebody(i.e. the taxpapers) dont have to pay for your mistake.

 

Urm... Contraceptives are there to prevent the chance of having kids, not prevent diseases.

How about using our brains instead of a pill?

I have to agree with you, though. In a world that is run by money and when your bank balance determines your standard of living there should definitely be some "guidelines" for the lower classes/unemployed to follow. They would say it's their human right but they are producing a life which will be full of pain, to itself and others. The human right to stupidity. Granted, there are exceptions and contributive, nee brilliant, people can still be produced at this level but it is obvious most of these people have no actual idea that they are introducing a conciousness into the world - an adult, ultimately- not a baby.

I think there should be a law for everyone to prove themselves as competent parents with an applicable understanding of human development and how the world works before they can start spawning. I feel sorry for all the sheep wondering around, bred to be cattle, born for no reason.

 

livelife.... you just said the pill is bad, and reproductive sex should be banned.... And lots of OTHER conflicting things.

Also, no, hormone changes because of the pill do NOT come "back up" the food chain.... Most of the hormone problems in public water is because of stupid fucktards dumping meds down the drain, like flushing the contents of a bottle of meds they don't take anymore.

 

Hey man, there is a male version of the pill. Not sure if it's out yet, but it's comin'.

And the pill totally fucks up hormones. There have been many cases of women dying because of the thrown off balance it causes. So, ... either you go on the male pill, get a vasectomy, or stop having sex. Or become the proud father to a plethora of children

 

Ever heard of Yaz? A lot of women had bad reactions to that shit. You can't say the pill never has bad side effects, so when a woman says they don't want to risk that, they're most likely not bullshitting you. OP sounds like an ass to me. Put a glove on it or don't fuck if you're not responsible enough to deal with contraceptives yourself.

 

The list of contraindications for the pill is massive. A huge number of women wont be able to take them because of medical issues. Not to mention that whether or not you hate women shouldn't depend on whether you can stick your dick in them without a condom on. What an ass. What about women on the pill who wouldn't look at you twice? Do you hate them, too? Basically you hate women you can't fuck, and I'm sure there is a majority of those.

 

This is almost more offensive than the op, and (as usual with conservative nonsense) WRONG POINT FOR POINT

What the fuck makes you think that every child born to parents who recieve welfare is unwanted?!

I kinda hope your husband runs off and leaves you with 5 kids and no job so you can eat your words while you cash your welfare check.

 

I really hate these judgemental generalizations about the poor

Statistically poor people are happier and more fulfilled. Their shortage of unsavory greed and ambition probably helps that along.

Poor people generally work hard, doing the jobs that others wouldn't lower themselves to do and society doesn't value enough to pay a living wage.

Institutional oppression is the main cause of poverty in the states. I think swift education funding reform would produce vast changes in underprivileged communities.

I think there should be a law against pretentious claims as to who should be allowed to have a family

 

As for me, I can only agree. Money doesn't buy you love and it certainly won't buy you happiness. But as far as the "comments" against the poor.

You have to understand that we live in a world where the super-mega-wealthy manipluate the masses. They use every trick possible to brand various groups in our society in order to keep us attacking each other and ignoring them.

Therefore as far as the poster's offfensive comments are concerned. Well, he has allowed himself to be suckered in by the manipulations.

 

The pill does mess you up! I suffered with vaginal dryness, not nice. I'm never going on that shit again. The pill wont protect you against S.T.Is either. GROW UP.

 

Hate girls who aren't on the pill? That is absolutely ridiculous. Here are a few reasons why I'd say so:

1.) Have you considered the percentage of the American population that has no medical insurance and may even be unemployed and can't even afford to go to the doctor's for serious issues let alone to buy a birth control pill?

2.) You can easily not date a person who is on the pill if you so wish to be so ridiculous but to hate any woman that chooses not to put a pill in her body for whatever reason seems harsh.

3.) A lot of birth control causes the menstrual cycle to stop completely, in my humbled opinion that ain't fucking natural.

4.) Even being on the pill a girl may still want you to wear a "sucky" condom as STD's are running ramped. Unless, you get tested very regularly which you may but just saying.

As you may have figured out I am not on birth control and do not plan to be, I am also childless with 0 abortions under my belt and STD free so that works fine for me.

I do not take medications of any form and have many, many reasons for that. Perhaps, you should assume these girls have their reasons as well?

 

I cannot believe there is even a debate about this-- what kinda nutjob girl (outside of nuns or toddlers) or not put on the pill! And in this day and age there is a type for everybody, and they are so safe, actually HEALTHY , lower the risk of cervical cancer. So if you are single & are in a casual relationship use condoms of course to prevent STDS and if you have more than one partner ever couple monhts or so continue to use condomes & get tested, but when I'm with a partner and it becomes a monogamous relationship i love ditching the condoms becuase I am on birth control, I dont cheat, and OMG II FEELS SOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH BETTER WITHOUT A CONDOM. LOL! I think that's why I find kinky and uninhibited but monogamous relationships the BEST!