The idea of sex addiction, at least when I first heard about it, sounded preposterous to me. I couldn't wrap my head around the idea of being addicted to sex. Now I'm not so sure... I'm coming to realize that sexual thoughts are with me most of the day. Sure, I have moments where I'm not thinking about sex, but they are rare. Every attractive woman I see becomes a sexual object in my mind. This mindset can be distracting. The problem is I'm married to a woman who's libido has fallen off a cliff. While she is mostly willing to have sex whenever I ask, she is pretty much non-orgasmic. I love making a woman cum, so sex has become a rather straight forward, boring affair. So, does a man hit an age where his libido slows down? I'm no kid. I'm 45 and there is no sign of my libido slowing down any time soon.
This is something that also affects women too you know! Sometimes I luxuriate in my thoughts, desires and impulses but sometimes it's almost like its so overwhelming, I don't know what to do with it all ... You know?
If you'd like to have some fun with your wife, you could try aphrodisiac foods.. that will boost her libido!
It would have to be HEAVEN to meet and get together with a woman like that... Want to bring all that over here and we'll see what we can do about quenching it?????
I look at a lot of women as 'damn i want to take you home and ...' then i get closer and start to talk to them and become very uninterested. I only become addicted to sex once im with/dateing a girl who is beautiful/smart/clever/head on shoulders, because otherwise its just a night stand and those get old fast.
