Masturbation technique question for guys

I have this thing I usually do if I want to get the most out of masturbation and I'd like to know if it works for everyone or just me.

First I just normally get myself closer to the point of actually coming (not too close) so the next step doesn't last forever. Then (lying on my back) I hold my penis down with the other hand and very lightly (barely touching) start rubbing the edge of the glans. You know that edge that runs around the head of the penis and goes up on the backside. It's usually pretty sensitive for me so I can feel the friction even though I'm very lightly touching it. I just keep applying friction to it and eventually I'll be on the edge of coming but I just can't come no matter how hard I try. I can keep myself on that edge for a long time, then it wears out a bit and comes back and when I finally come my whole body shakes for a while and the orgasm lasts what seems to be forever and I'm all sweaty and exhausted.

So I'd like to know if anyone else has similar thing they do? or some other way of getting an orgasm like that. Also if not, does this work for anyone else? If you don't have answer now it would be nice if you'd reply later

 

no i liek to cum when im ready

 

What you are doing is called "edging", bringing yourself to the edge of orgasm and then pulling back, and doing it again and again. It helps you control your orgasm by recognizing when you are about to come and then stopping it.

 

i do edging to, great way for self discipline and at the end a better orgasm

 

sort of close to this.

I try and push the feeling that I have in my penis around the rest of my body, trying to get a whole body orgasm, not quite there yet but almost.

A lot of the time the 'shame' thoughts that are connected to masturbation are making most men just knock one out as quick as possible.. There is no way that any pleasure can be had with this sort of mental state.

 

Im not an edger, but what i like to do is wank almost till i cum then put my ladies vibrator on the most sensitive part of the glans and stop masturbating. I just have the best orgasm then.

 

The sensation of building to the edge of cumming, to me, is finer than the actual climax of cumming so I generally set aside a good hour for my session ... I precum which has an intoxicating sweet taste that I want to linger with as long as possible.