So am I bisexual or not?

Well there's this guy he's gay and his parents are neighbors and kind of close to my dad. I think he's hot. He has the perfect pout and his body I have always been automatically physically attracted to as if I were a magnet. He came back from college. He's in law school and seeming along with good looking very intellectual. Well we've talked before but this time I guess it was spontaneous I kissed. I have had gay kisses before.... But this was something else. And he's a good kisser and he started to massage me and it felt so soothing so right. I liked every bit of his touch being in his arms and wanting more or so I thought. I've never jumped at the chance to go further with a guy. I always push a guy away once he puts his hands on me or exposes himself. Same thing happened. When he was undressed I backed away. I don't like guys or their anatomy really I preffer going all the way with girls. Penises just turn me off. I guess because I have one and nothing about myuself turns me on. Well he got reallypushy and kept guilting me to do oral. Well I ended up doing it and it felt bad. So what am I? I'm 16 btw.

 

You are simply confused. Which is all right. You are 16.

Yet, whenever sex involves more than one, the feelings of the others and their satisfaction must be considered, too. If you start kissing another dude, you ought to understand that he will most likely want to get some sexual release out of that encounter, too. A BJ, like it or not is a normal expectation on his part under such circumstances. Now, you find the male anatomy to be unappealing. A good thing would be to state upfront that you want to cuddle and kiss but that you would not want to go beyond that point. If he goes along, that's fine. If he does not, go and look for a more appealing anatomy.

KD

 

nope...wrong....i was going to say ''you are simply having fun''there doesnt need to be a label or a decision about sexuality at this time[or any time]......just be careful about std's and dont get yer heart broke...good luck

 

You are definitely Bi. Having a guy push you into oral sex is THE worst thing ever. Having a penis in your mouth when you don't want it there is the most degrading thing I have ever felt. I almost made me stop messing around with guys. I am not talking rape, which is on the same level. I am talking about being obligated to do it. Like you fuck a guy or he sucks you off then you have to suck his dick. That's the worst thing about being with a guy. Reciprocating when you don't want to is a bitch and makes me feel like I am a piece of shit.

Thats the only drawback to gay stuff, is that you have to reciprocate every time almost. With a girl its easy, they get satisfied by you satisfying yourself. A girl will give you a blow job and not expect to be eaten out. Thats whats awesome about girls. Guys on the other hand force you into getting them off too, which isn't bad when you are in the mood to do so. I have to get them off first in order for me to enjoy gay stuff. Because after I cum I don't want to do anything sexual afterwords. I know it sounds selfish, but I'm spoiled because I am bi and know what its like with a girl. I love girls

I just wish there was a guy out there that was like a girl in the fact that they are happy with getting you off istead of it being a deal like that; you get me off I get you off. It makes it seem not like love at all. That's why I like to just get them off sometimes. But then they want to get me off afterwords... Which is even more annoying since I don't want to get off every time they want to!

 

I have verrrrry important news. Everyone, and I mean everyone is gay.

 

Yawn.........................



Cheers Glen.

 

Don't ever let anyone guilt you, or pressure you into sex.
You are experimenting and that's fine as long as you enjoy it. You don't need to label yourself for a very long time.
That guy is an asshole for not understanding that you are 16 years old, and might not want anything more than making out

 

you are simply GAY don't be ashamed honey

 

Not that gay men are girls but a girl at 16 tends to be a bit of a cock tease. They like to kiss and grope but aren't ready to close the deal. You might be gay u might be bi but at this point I feel its safe to say ur not straight. Its ok baby call dark suger in 2 yrs and we will show u the joys of man sex

 

who the fuck are these guys you're hangin out w/?
I'm a straight guy and I wouldn't expect to be blown if I went down on her.
Of course, if it became a pattern we'd have to have a talk but force a woman to get me off?

 

I'm not gay. I know that's obvious. I only fantasize about girls even though I can get off with a guy. I know that. I'm realizing I'm not straight either. I have had sex with both genders by now and can enjoy a relationship with either gender. Not equally but eacch I believe is suitable. I think I'm just bisexual.

 

your traumatize in my opinion