So I'm not awful at giving head. I've had so many guys tell me how amazing I am. However, one thing I do lack is stamina. I usually end up asking a guy to help me by him getting himself closer to the end and letting me take over to finish. No one has refused this option yet, but I still feel bad about asking. Is it normal to ask for some help/is it rude to ask for help?
Getting help is not that unusual, whilst I love getting head, I usually wank towards the end or it would take ages to cum..
First of all, I'm not into threesomes. Secondly, I don't have any friends that are. And thirdly, I definitely DEFINITELY do NOT have a bf. Ew. See, that's my thing. Guys seriously take forever. I can usually go 20-30minutes, but then I just want it to be over/I'm not having fun anymore. Thank you for making me feel less unique. I'm not trying to be funny. I really just don't know what's allowed/okay when doing stuff. I've lived a very sheltered life and don't have friends that I'd feel comfortable talking to about this.
Okay I'll bite. If you are serious then let me answer you seriously. I would zip my pants up and leave if a chick asked me to wank to get the job halfway done so I could tag her in later. I would suggest you get more comfortable with your sexuality and learn to throw in some dirty talk, use your hand to give your mouth a break, lick the shaft or stroke said shaft with yo lips and you should be fine.
Thank you for your honest answer. This was the reaction I would expect, but no guy has ever complained about it (perhaps at my age compared to yours they're still just happy to have a girl at all?) so I wasn't sure if it was a thing or if I was just different. The other guy said that he helps out, but you say that it's never happened to you, so maybe it's more common than I think, but less common than what should be expected/allowed.
20-30 minutes is quite a lot. Not going to say that you are doing something wrong - I have no idea how exactly you give head - but personally I don't think I ever lasted longer than 15 minutes with any woman. So to me it seems that there maybe something missing? I'd also find it quite awkward if I heard something like: "sorry can you jack off for a bit? I'll finish you off in a minute."
Why don't you be nice and fuck the girl so she'll get something out of it too? Or take turns? I bet you don't have any skills at pussy licking.
