When it's over and they don't listen

All will be well and hope that people can love each other enough to give them the space if it means not having and intimate relationship with them anymore. I know I've loved and knew when it was time to transition and move on to other priorities. Everything has a time and place in our lives and sadly somethings have to end to ensure healthy grow emotionally and spiritually.

 

Hon fyi, if you don't break the above up into smaller paragraphs people will not want to read it since it's hard on the eyes.

I skimmed through it and from what I got I will say that yes, men can sometimes fall to pieces when relationships end. If your sure its over then make it clear and get out. He'll have to deal with it eventually.

Just be sure that you are not throwing away a good guy who is willing to take on your 4 kids who are not his and still love you and support you. Don't string this dude along and look for something better and take him right back if you don't find it. Not saying you are doing this at all but I have seen women do that and expect the guy to get over it.

Make sure you know what you want and then take action.

 

The part that resonated with me was how hard it is to accept our inability to help others. In other words your level of consciousness is higher than his but no matter what you do you can't communicate your level of awareness to him.

I find that my own developement is exponentially accelerated when I eliminate the negative influences from my life. When it's significant people in my life it can be extremely hard to do though.

 

I did make paragraphs. I just didn't make a bunch of spaces between the paragraphs I suppose you have to do that here.




ok thanks

 

Your original post looked like one huge paragraph to me but whatever....Good luck.