I'm a guy and I can never climax during sex...

Hey guys,

Basically I recently had sex for the first time and have been doing it quite frequently now. However I found on every occasion (alcohol and no alcohol involved) I have not felt close to climaxing. The girl involved is more experienced than me so she's kind of found it strange that I can't 'finish.' I still find the whole experience great so I've began reading online about delayed ejaculation etc. Also read stuff about sometimes your brain can get so used to one way of stimulation (masturbation) that others method like sex don't compare. Now I am your average guy when I comes to masturbation so I don't think this is the case but i also found stuff about how it can desensitise your genitals which is kind of worrying as I may have caused some damage! For this reason I have abstained from masturbation and sex (nearly 2 weeks) in the hope that in about a months time it could happen.

I was wondering if anybody else has had this sort of issue before and if so did anything else help, it's pretty frustrating (especially sexually )

 

Even if you don't masturbate much, it can still become what you're used to. Try to have her work you or work sex around how you jerk off and see if that helps any. Also, stop jerking off.. you might be just one of those dudes that takes forever to orgasm, and it could be a mind thing.. you are probably focusing too much on orgasming that you're stressing yourself out into not being able too. Relax!

 

You have to train your body. It took me 6 months of almost daily sex before I had my first orgasm during it. It's still hard for me.

 

I'd type that that could be a problem..

 

It's a problem who's main side effect is that I can have sex indefinitely. My gf manages

 

are you on any medications?..a lot of meds have this as a side effect