What do you make of this?

So I meet a really cool guy at a festival and talk to him a couple of times. After working up the balls to actually hit on this dude I proceed to tell him that he's really cute. Then I ask him for his number to hang out sometime and he gives me a hug. After calling him to ask him out he proceeds to tell me that he's "not really into guys".
Wouldn't you think if he was not really into guys that he should have informed me of that before accepting the compliment and giving me his number?
So here I am disappointed once again. Anyone know a cute dude who wants to travel the country on the festi circuit this summer? I'm pretty much everywhere so PM me if you want to talk more. :love:

 

You still represent someone who was in to him, gave him a nice little ego boost, and he was cool enough not to act like a little girl about it

And you worked up the balls as you say to ask him out.

Its all positive.

Thats the key, you've got to ask the question, there are dozens of reasons they may say no, most of which dont have anything to do with you.

Life is too short to worry about rejection

 

i agree with gorilla. the guy was cool about it and played it off in a way that wasn't embarrassing.

 

some straight guys are flirty with other guys even though they have no intention to ever take it farther than that. but yeah, he was probably perfectly aware why you asked him for his number, and it would've been more decent if he had told you up front not to bother. he didn't, nothing you can really do about it.