Are all girls like this?

Neurotic as well.



P.S I find myself agreeing with you for once on the star sign thing

 

Wow man.... you really took the He-man women haters club seriously didn't you.... lol

Purp... ignore 75% of what VG has to say on the subject of women... he means well, but women are the source of all evil for him... lol

 

one thing is for certain. i've let girls get to me, and then i lose my cool - maybe there is the downfall. i let them see me be weak

 

yup, most women i've met are like this as well. for some time they're one thing and then at some point they completely turn around and go batshit crazy about something. plus they seem to have their logic circuits fried. this is one of the reasons I'm really glad I'm gay.

the only good female friends i ever had were the childhood ones, before their hormones had kicked in. it seems the more mature they get the more absurd they start acting.

 

i have had really good female friends. one of my best friends is a girl.

i won't lie, this sort of stuff has made me wonder if i could be gay, simply because dealing with the opposite sex drives me crazy. i still enjoy female company better in a sexual light though lol

i just hope that i'm not giving the signal that i've lost my cool...i think i've remained cool...i need to stop thinking i'm cool and just BE cool

 

exactly.

 

yeah i have already been able to identify the reasons past girls were incompatible with me, i just have a hard time finding any girl that IS compatible

 

It`s called gay for a reason...

I haven`t had sex with a lot of men, but things have gotten a lot easier for me since I got into BDSM. :biggrin:

 

well, it doesn't quite work like that. i've had some of my straight friends complain they wished they were gay as well, just to be able to avoid all the female drama, and i see their point, but that is not something that makes someone gay.

i wish you luck though, you'll need it.

 

i don't need luck, i just need to know where to find a good girl

not even a GOOD girl, just a girl that knows what she wants.

 

What are you doing to attract these types of women?

 

well - i don't know...probably being super fucked in my own head.

i dunno. this current girl to have inspired this thread has turned to be extremely shady. she isn't worth my time if she is just going to run around me in circles.

 

/thread

purp, weren't you the one that told her that you didn't want a relationship? so how is that her fault?

though, i have decided that about 99% of women are insecure, frightened, and bitchy, don't know what they want, and tend to change their minds daily.

 

yeah i know i fucked up when i said that...i was drunk and had diarrhea of the mouth.

i can't figure it out though...i don't want to say anything about it though...i mean i do, but fuck it.

bleafhghh fucking bullshit

like she said she wanted to remain single...that's when i said i don't want a relationship...is that fucking up? i don't know.

 

In situations where I've been flighty like that before, its usually because things start off mellow, cool, chill, and natural and somehow morph into something more intense than I'm ready for when I'm just getting to know someone.

I don't really know if I'm like other women, but I like to keep things cool and chill for a long time. Any possible sign that things are not going to remain natural and cool will freak me the fuck out. Maybe thats whats happening with your girls.

Even if you aren't intentionally putting on an act, anytime you have to stop and deliberately think about how to act around women, you are putting up some kind of act. I agree with Tom..just be yourself and don't worry about it too much. Don't put pressure on anything. Don't think..oh I need to act like I'm serious about this girl, or I need to act like I don't want to get involved with this one....don't even worry about any of that or what kind of signal you're sending her. Just be yourself, get to know a lady, and keep things casual for a while.

I don't mean casual in a "i don't want a relationship" kind of way though That will usually scare them away.

 

word. i don't think i am NOT acting cool...i can see this being the reason though

i definitely laid some heavy shit down when i shouldn't have. my mistake...
i fucked up multiple times though - i'm surprised she even talks to me anymore.

perhaps i should just cool off from her for a minute, cause it isn't like i feel any different besides frustrated that i spilled more than i should have and she has resulted with some shady ass actions.

no matter, time will tell.

 

Ether theres somthing wrong with the girls you get or you make em like thay are,

for exampel you look rellly nice and cute but you are a duchbag.

 

??????????

 

When you meet the girl who likes the dude who posted this thread you'll realize how silly you were to be this or be that . . . these ho's you can chase if you want man, if you have some game you might even nail a few of them, maybe get into the inner 'cool crowd' or whatever, but when the real deal comes along she's not gonna give a flying fuck about what those other floozies cared about and you're gonna be scratchin your head wonderin where she came from

Again, it sounds like your dating pool is not very compatible with you. This is a big problem I see happening all around me and it's tragic. People limit themselves to people they directly bump into at school/work or people that happen to be in the bar that they happen to be on night X. There is a way to dramatically widen your net and at the same time narrow it down to the kinds of women you are way more interested in. Online dating! You can laugh, but one in five MARRIAGES is now from online dating. I met my girlfriend online, and we have been together almost a year, and you know what the crazy part is?

- we go to the same school
- for the same program
- we work at the same company
- we live like 3-4 blocks away from each other, on the same street
- we both have had very similar experience with life issues
- we both see eye to eye on 99% of things

but the craziest part?

we would have never met each other if we didn't go online to a dating site.

I really recommend it. Think about what I am saying, regarding dating pool. People need to learn to think outside the box. Your options are NOT shallow ditz #1 and attention whore #2 etc . . . .


Or you can keep swimming against the current and being rejected by girls that you probably would only find marginally interesting anyways.

The girl you're looking for is the girl you can lay your deepest heaviest shit on and she will look at you like you have a golden cock made of orgasm, manliness, and distilled chuck norris. Good luck :sunny:

 

I think its the kind of girls you are attracting. I had the same problem with men...for some reason, I was attracting these clingy, needy girly men and I couldn't handle being the "man" in the relationship any longer.

Change it up...go different places and see new people...maybe you'll find someone a little off the beaten path that will change your whole world