I'm like this all the time. If your husband isnt available, you can always just ''ring the devil's doorbell'' If ya know what I mean.
I sort of know how you feel! I have a 5 year old, and she keeps me so busy.. For the past.. LONG while.. I haven't been sexual at all. Not with a man, woman, myself.. No fantasies, NOTHING After talking with a few friends, I was worried that by not using it, I was losing it. So I went home, played around a few times.. It's been 3 weeks and I'm so frisky I can hardly breathe. All. The. Time. I don't know how to "fix" it, either! I find myself eye-fucking every attractive person who comes into work (which might turn into a problem). The great part is.. It's as if they can see or feel the sexual sparks flying off of me.. I have never been flirted with so much in my life. I say, if he's game, do hubby right up There's always time, even when you're a parent. Heck, I think I'm going to go love thine own self right about now!
It was never an excuse. Our lives are so busy, what with her running abusiness from our home and me working shift work. Also, me being on meds. Imagine even thinking about sex after four three year olds plus your own tearing around the house, then making dinner, clean up baths, bed etc. Do you run a daycare in your house? Then I guess you wouldn't know what it's like,
i completely agree - children (and housework) can be infinitely draining. Like a zoo! And i only have ONE child! Sex is great and lovely and can be one of the best perks of a relationship, but the phrasing in the post you quoted makes it seem as if the lack of sex makes the lack-of-sex-er a bad person! It speaks as if they're not doing "their job". Like most things, i feel that as soon as it becomes a must do, a chore (in a way), a lot of the fun comes out of it. It's natural - let it come naturally, whenever and however it does =)