Well I guess I'm your average single guy looking for love. I am 28 and well-educated. I own my car outright and I have a great personality. I have worked hard for everything I've got, but I can't seem to find what I'm looking for. I guess I'm not what many women would call their "cup of tea". I'm overweight and tall. I know one problem I have. I am really looking for a woman who wants to get pregnant right away. I have met several who were awesome, but wanted babies for selfish reasons. I want to be a parent because I feel in my heart it's the right time, but many women get "freaked out" at the mere mention of the word "baby". I don't want marriage and to do the "happily ever after" thing. I want to raise a child with someone, but not be in a relationship. I think the term is co-parenting. I'm not down on marriage, I'm just down on divorce. I mean someone can just "fall out of love" with their spouse? Why even get married if you knew you weren't going to be in it for the long haul? That's why, I choose not to get married in order to avoid divorce (sounds stupid, but I believe happiness can be had with someone without saying "I Do"). For me that would be ideal, but finding a woman who thinks the same as I do is very difficult. Is there a woman out there who feels the same way I do? Would love to hear from you. :love:
I think what you want is very irresponsible and selfish. I hope you don't find one, for any possible future children's sake.
