The average person would find it completely fucked up as most guys would say a loose anything is gross, but seeing this particular thing is awesome to me.
I've pulled out and cum in my wife's gaping ass a number of times, but I prefer to cum buried in her ass. It looks good when I'm fucking her doggie-style and spread her asshole.
You don't get is as in: you don't understand the appeal, or you don't get it as in: your ass doesn't gape after anal sex?
Gaping is a huge turn on for me. I haven't seen it for real with a girl yet, just the pics and vids. I am very into anal masterbation and have tried to get a good gape myself but just can't relax enough, for long enough, to do it....
I love gaping my wife's little anal. It quite doesn't go as gape as porn stars (trying to) but it's such a turn on. I need to have it at least twice a month, I prefer every other day but that's just fantasy.
any others? girls? I have only done a tiny bit in real life and love it....favourite thing in porn tho!