Lately I've been having sexual feelings towards my mom I know that it's fucked up and wierd and disgusting. I try to ignore the feelings but they keep coming back I feel like shit and don't know what to do :/
We are all sexual creatures, all our particular fetishes are, whether they be incestuous, bdsm in nature, they are all, in many ways like Freud described, ways of us working out stressors in our lives , whether it be sexual stress, or any kind stress or trauma, please, don't let guilt eat away at you. I think you should try role playing this situation-if that is cathartic,then great-if it buildsinto a greater obsession, lilke then you need to role playiit more often and more frequently until you cannot maintain a reality-based relationship,then it's time to reach out for therapy.Was there some particular reason for the origin of the fetish or did the thought just turn you on? Is is ONLY your mom is it the idea like,any olderwoman pretending to be your mom? sorry ahead of time for typos, i have a messed up keyboard!
No I mean I don't want to be attracted to my mom the feelings just sort of started randomly...Don't get me wrong I fantasize about other women too, but sometimes they turn into my mom or whatever even when I don't want them to. It also seems like thinking about my mom "gets me going" more than any other girl as fucked up as that sounds
has your mother ever been inappropriate with you? like a alot of nudity or fondling or anything? how old are you? How old is your mom? have you and your mom always been really really close?
Well no not really...this probably sounds messed up as well but my mom is really good looking for her age, she is like 38 right now and she could probably pass for someone my age. I'm 19. Idk we have always been really close yeah I mean I lived alone with her for most of my childhood and I slept with her (in a non sexual manner) till I was like 11 years old.
well due to the emotional closeness there that makes a LOT of sense, seriously, and it's totally understandable and you shouldn't feel any shame although it is something I think you should talk to someone about. You will just probably always have a MILF complex, but thats at least a healthy way of dealing with it!
yes and if your therapist tries to make you feel guilty- I'm not kidding, tell him to go fuck himself and just spit in his face and walk out- there are a LOT of therapists out there who a WAAAY sicker than any patient.
