i prefer women to men and find them more interesting, i suppose im more attracted to women, yet still im not THAT sure im that attracted to women. im not atttracted to men though. although i prefer girls personalities, find them more interesting, pretty, im not sure i find them sexually attractive. i never have same sex fantasies or imagine kissing girls i like....i just dont really knw what i want how do i know
honestly... the fact that you have thought this much about it leads me to believe you are gay. idk, from the way you describe it you sound pretty gay to me. all I can tell you for sure is that soon enough something will happen that will make you sure of what you like, at least in terms of men vs. women. it just takes time.
No one on a forum can really tell you how to know you are gay, straight, whatever. The only person who can really know for sure is you in the long run. But in my opinion it sounds like maybe you should question if you are even interested in a sexual relationship with anyone. Asexuality might seem ridiculous to the majority of the population, but it is indeed a possibility. That might make you even more confused adding that to the equation, but labeling yourself isn't important. Just get to know yourself without worrying too much about the label. One day you'll know what you want.
How old are you? Maybe you just haven't developed your tastes yet, it takes some people all their lives. In my opinion just be open to whatever until you know what you like and what you don't like. Or you can spend years possibly being in the closet and slowly realize after years that can be torment and possible ridicule fighting with yourself until you finally have to admit it. Why believe your gay or straight or bi until you know.
I think you should just give it time. Sooner or later you are going to meet someone, be it a guy or a girl, that will make you feel all those things that the great authors write about. There is no need to worry, all you have to do is be patient
Honesty you shouldn't have to put a label on anything to feel comfortable. Go with what you feel, go with tha flow. You can't be more true to yourself than that, long as you love the one you're with does it matter if you call yourself gay/straight?! Just sayin. My $.02
well , i do feel experimentin in my teens would have been better, but i had no self esteem or life then. at uni i have more freedom i guess. i dont hav issues getting with girls or even sleeping with girls, the problem is i kinda wanna experiment in private. i only have 1 friend who knows my curiosity,im just the kinda peson who canmake 1 or two good mates, and 'reveal' stuf about myself, but im not capable of being myself around a lot of people, and most people tend to befriend a lot of people......anyway, i just feel i could have feelings for women but not for men. not rly attracted to straights girls, but there was a girl who was bi but leaning to lesbian and i was rly attracted to her in a emotional way. she was really confident (everything im not), she was also funny and everything and girlly, i was emotionally attracted toher, sexually im not sure......
