Did I go out with a transsexual last night?

.First I should say that Although I have never been with a TG woman, I am not necessarily opposed to it...
OK here goes... Has a date last night with a super woman. She is a bit older than I, and I found out that she shaved a few years too - no biggie.
She's very attractive, petite etc. had a great time too. Here's what has me wondering ...
1 - husky but female voice, esp. for such a little thing - now, until the events detailed below, i wouldn't have thought a thing about this woman being TG..

then we ended up in her car, infront of a resturant on a somewhat busy street smoking and BSing. i should mention she's mid 40s i guess. so we start making out.
2 - felt like there was almost some stubble on the chin although none was of course visible
3 - she had me all over her breasts to an almost excessive a.amount and she was acting as if they were super sensitive. theu ended up out with me licking on them, in the car, with ppl walking by, she had no problem with that, but when in the course of getting hot n heavy my hands went towards the pants area (with them on) she moved them away. I know breasts can be so different, but hers seemed.... juvenile..
and when i sat up & it was time to put the boobies away, as it were, her hand was on her crotch, and not in a girl clit rubbing kinda way, although i didnt really look that hard....
And I'm pretty sure she wanted to have sex in the car, in winter cloths, which could lead to some.... shenanigans regarding what goes where.
for the record I'm NOT ok with being bamboozled...

whats the verdict? TG or not?

 

Yeah tranny. i didn't read it but it was a tranny.

 

it is kinda one of those "If you have to ask..
" questions

 

Well your best bet would be ask... Being lied to is not fun, but understand that Transsexuals can often find it difficult to date when they announce it to everyone

I would not jump just yet though, maybe she was just up for some fooling around, and was not interested in taking her pants off for you yet

I think the more important thing to think about, regardless of everything else, is whether or not you would want to peruse the situation if this individual was transgendered, because if you figure that out, then it wont matter if they are or not

 

well.... despite the hand-moving thing, there was some coy comments which more than implied the big S-E-X, to the point where there was no mistaken where things were headed had i been ok banging in the car.
oh, and i wasn't going for the buckle and zipper, as i wasn't trying to take her pants off.. i was going for some outside the clothes foreplay, you know!
also, i would say that TG or not I would likely date this woman, except I don't know how OK I am with the deception (assuming TG, of course), which I presume would have gone on right up until there was no way to keep it up.

and just ask? what if she's not TG? ooof, bad news

 

Well maybe not something so up front as "Hey, were you born with a penis"

Go for something more subtle, like... Hmm, well your going to have to work on that.

"Can you look in the sky for me, my friend Adam said we could see him somewhere"

Maybe just next time your fooling around if she doesn't let you near the pants when you think its time, ask why. I do not know if you are bisexual or not, but have you considered the possibility she has a penis?

 

y ummmmm YEA, the penis possibility is why i would assume the hand divrrsion came into play. Actually, IMO, if there's no cock hiding down there there's no problem, even if she is TG. If there is, that i gotta ponder on. I've never thought of myself as bi, but the the possibility of a penis doesn't totally wig me out...

 

This is the thing that many people who accuse transpeople of "lying" do not take into consideration. Most transpeople just want to live normal, everyday lives. This is not really possible, if you are open about being transsexual, as most don't see or treat transsexuals as normal people, and will see them in a manner in which they do not see themselves.

It is unfortunate that many transpeople feel they have to keep aspects of their pasts hidden. But they really have no choice but to do that, if they want to be able to function in society just like everyone else. So while it's definitely not ideal, it is certainly understandable.

 

ok, I'm pretty damn sure she was born a broad,after some talking (that didn't even approach TG topics) & I'll see her Sunday, so I'll fill in the details after

 

TG's must be getting very convincing these days, when some guys are actually now mistaking genetically born women for transsexuals. lol

 

yea, or I'm just an acid casualty .... i forgot to mention when we were making out & i alla sudden got the TG thought in my head i looked at her, and she being kinda... mussed up and whatnot, and for a sec sh looked like a kinda ugly guy in a bad wig..
like i said, acid.casualty ....

 

Well, I have heard a few guys on here asking if the girl they're dating, or some other girl is a transsexual. lol

 

i don't quite follow that from the second comma on...

 

I forgot to put "or" sorry. Ive corrected it now I meant that the question sometimes isnt about a date, just asking "is this girl a "tranny". lol

 

aha! now i get it!
yea, just an older woman with some botox & plastic surgery..
& a c section scar..

 

I want to know details asap!!

 

not many to give... we're in STL too, strangely enough.
she's SUPER cute, and I think i fucked her non-plastic (surgery) pussy enough times this week to qualify as an expert on her gender! ;-)
all woman, all natural, and all that!

 

not many to give... we're in STL too, strangely enough.
she's SUPER cute, and I think i fucked her non-plastic (surgery) pussy enough times this week to qualify as an expert on her gender! ;-)
all woman, all natural, and all that!

 

posable... could just see how things tern out cas she could just be a odd girl lol or have hormone issues lol