She won't wear sexy undies!!!!

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by asexybloke, Jul 2, 2011.

  1. SomeMight

    SomeMight Guest

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    You probably have a whole host of issues that you need to iron out before you are within any chance of what you are after.

    I mean, going through her underwear, even thinking about hiding the not so sexy ones - are you a totally manipulating bully or something??

    You are obviously putting a huge amount of pressure on her and she is responding like any normal person would.

    Back off and stop treating her like a blow-up shag doll. You might be surprised by her reaction.
     
  2. Sunshineedaydream

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    I agree I'd be annoyed if my guy sorted out my undies, constantly bought me new panties and stuff.

    Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable wearing skimpy undwear anymore, Maybe she thinks they are unflattering on her? Possibly she just prefers wearing her comfortable underwear.

    Either way, I would say if anything just be like "Baby I miss you wearing your sexy little panties... it always turns me on ;) " or something flirty - not forcing her or anything though.
     
  3. deleted

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    Op, why dont you put on a pair of lace textured panties and sit in them for a while and see how they make your ass look like a waffle..

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  4. lovelyxmalia

    lovelyxmalia Banana Hammock Lifetime Supporter

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    I agree here...

    I'll tell ya one thing...lacey thongs are uncomfortable as fuckkkkk. Those are definitely only whipped out on special occasions...
     
  5. groovychick1212

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    straight up tell her what you like....tell her that the grannies dont turn u on...plan and simple...or just burn them haha
     
  6. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Stop wasting the money on something she's not wearing?

    Is there a middle ground between the apparently Fredricks of Hollywood level you are wanting and whatever it is she's wearing?

    Or is this a new thing for you and she's not on board?
     
  7. RooRshack

    RooRshack On Sabbatical

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    See, I have the reverse problem.

    She climbs off my dick, and suddenly she's wearing fucking underwear again.

    I WANT MY SAMMICH MADE IN THE NUDE, DAMN IT.
     
  8. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

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    Get her to throw them all away and wear nothing at all. Lots of money saved.
     
  9. lynzxx

    lynzxx Senior Member

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    haha my boyfriend hates when i dont wear nice undies :D
    i try to make and effort tho, I've been with him 5 years, i like that he still fancies me and that we havent really lost our spark... well we did for a while. but now its back :p

    If i look good i feel good! :D i wear a thong or whatever to his place, then i sleep in my comfy ones !!! i dont do sleeping in frilly thongs :ack2:

    but in honesty!!! i dont wear UGLY underwear, he just doesnt really like anything unless its a thong, or see-through ahah
     
  10. caved

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    u really think that??
     
  11. Pushpop

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    In my only other long term relationship Sex wasn't high on our list of priorities. I was never made to feel sexy and any effort I made in that department wasn't noticed or appreciated. I started wearing sexy underwear to make myself feel sexy and feminine. Nowadays in my current relationship sex is everything I knew it should be. I'm made to feel sexy,loved and desired I love wearing stuff I know he loves seeing me in and I love how sexy I feel as a woman when wearing it. Keep buying it for her. Communicate with her about how she feels about wearing it, and why she feels uncomfortable in it. Without knowing you and your wife it's hard to know if she's confident in herself but I say most important of all make her feel like the sexiest woman alive. Bet she'l wear it then! Good luck:)
     
  12. Serene Divinity

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    I would post a sexy undie pic but cant upload for some reason haha
     
  13. Quiet Storm

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    Instead of hiding her current....'underwear' -- buy her a bag full of sexy ones...take her out, have a nice time, talk dirty to her...get things going, give her the new panties and if she should, really - wear them for you.

    WHY a woman would wear granny panties is beyond me. Even if no one sees my panties, I still wear sexy ones -- for me -- to feel good and sexy.

    Women deny their man of little things like this and then they wonder why you are looking elsewhere to be satisfied.


    Oh, this reminds me, I was at Subway and a lady working there came out to clean up....she had soft cotton pants on, when she bent over you could see the lines of her HUGE granny panties on her wide butt......ugh, I could hardly eat after that.
     
  14. hartylaugh325

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    Talk to her and tell her you want her to wear the sexy panties. See what she's thinking. Don't force her to do something she doesn't want to do.
     
  15. Lvnfemale

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    First stop telling your wife how to look your making her feel like if she is not attractive for who she is. So she is probably putting up her females bitchy gloves up and making you learn a lesson. We do not like to be told what to wear. Grab your wife and have mad sex with her but don't mention the undies. I never understood why woman pay so much money for that it's going to come off anyway. Go downtown on her. So she could forgive you for making her go through that. Trust me shell come around
     
  16. anonisacat

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    HAHAHA!!! I'm sorry but i got a good laugh at out that!
     
  17. twopointsfour

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    agree, when i was married, she would only wear grandma underwear. cuz it was "comfortable". never even wore any just to walk around the house in

    i think those who think it a waste or unnecessary do not know the joy of anticipation. neither the sensuousness of an outlined crotch
     

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