im a virgin and also my girlfriend... we already had a night together, the first was were on my friends house, i kissed her lips and her boobs but she doesnt allow me to touch hers... ofcourse its not our house not much "privacy", we might be heard... i manage to invite her in a hotel after our whole day date... i kissed her most of the time her breast too... she asked me "if im still a virgin?" because she really likes what im doing, she told me that i kissed liked a PRO in sex... "a compliment" and also licked her body and her pussy... she moans a lot... "i loved it" and she always bite my lips when were kissing... the sad part is when i want to insert my penis to her vagina... "i really cant locate it" "VIRGIN" shes a virgin too so its tight... and when im pushing it in, shes said "it hurts" cant push it through... "coz shes hurt" on our third night... she told me that i can have her virginity... so its a GO signal... then when shes touching my penis, she said its too BIG... she might not be able to handle it... i told that she can... then she told me to put a CONDOM... safety purpose... its more harder to locate, its better for me if i dont wear a CONDOM, she said it hurts again so its STILL a 0 points... T_T means i still cant get it in... any help?
Plenty of foreplay should get the vagina aroused, swollen & moistened so as to accept the penis. Even so, it may be still be a little tight the first time, but the vagina will adapt itself. However, you can't go wrong by using some extra lubrication (water based, naturally, so as to be compatible with condoms).
so you mean, using lubricants can help me? or not? and yea i do lots of foreplay until she moans a lot...
and in addition... when i tried to insert my middle finger, in hers, shes hurt and grab my hands away... i think she do not masturbate "penetrate" its a big problem for me since i am too a "virgin"
