An Ex bf of mine tried to fake an orgasm once but of course I knew because there was nothing on the napkins he used to clean up. I never found out why he did it, he just kept saying that he did have one. Have any of you guys ever faked or have any of you ladies had a guy try this?
not for any reason really but there are times. I say to my wife. Well baby I just cant cum. And maybe we will try to jack it out, if its one that needs to cum out in her presence. Other times ill just wait til later .. I dont know why he feels he needs to lie to you.. many times during high sex activity, I pre cum continuous. to me these are the best sensations..
I don't know either. It was really weird because we would always talk openly about sex. Only thing I can think of is maybe he used it all up before he got home.
you mean with someone else, or masturbation.... IF he jerks off it might be to last longer.. and give you DICK more so than less.. The question is did you cum from this sex?.. IF so maybe he cares more about your Orgasm that his own. There are men like this..
I've faked it. It's easier if you're wearing a condom of course. I did so because my girlfriend really wanted me to get off, she would sometimes get pissed if I didn't, and I knew it was just one of those times when it wasn't going to happen.
lol duck....funny signature. Lunar..she would really get pissed? that kinda takes the fun out of it all. I've been with guys that just haven't been able to get off, usually if they were drinking or something, but I don't think I've ever had one fake it..that I know of.
sometimes even us guys can't reach orgasm. maybe nervous? maybe some kind of pain? maybe sick? maybe tired? maybe just not "into it" at the time? you know the SAME REASONS a female may not be able too. So -why- would he fake it? same reason females that fake it do so..because they know it's not going to happen and want to end the "session." there's no reason to be offended by it. at all. It happens. And it doesn't mean anything was done wrong by anyone. When I was a teen and "lost" my virginity....I didn't cum...obviously I'm a guy. Hell I had sex about a dozen times before I finally was able too. Performance anxiety maybe? After the first time I didn't have much problems but every now and then I still run into times when I just can't cum. Sometimes it's because of a hard day at work. Stress. And at times because I started getting pains in my back/neck/knee's etc. If you've had sex with this guy before and he's cum..but couldn't just this once..dont' worry about it. At all. Now if it's a recurring problem then it may be something to worry about. Either way there's no reason to be offended or feel like you've done anything wrong.
One time I couldn't orgasm, and my wife seemed to take it as a personal afront on her beauty and skill as my sex toy. She insisted that we keep pumping until I lose it. I was sweaty and wore out, so after another 5 minutes I faked it. There are very few times when I can't orgasm, actually none now that I am on Haldol, but back before Haldol there were a few times when I decided rather than getting into a three hour discussion with my wife to try to tell her she really is beautiful and then a 2 week silent treatment after that, I would just fake the orgasm.
