Girlfriend Uncomfortable Feeling with Sex Position

I would like to know if any girls have experienced this or can explain to me what is going on. In some sex positions, my girlfriend gets the feeling that she needs to pee. It's an uncomfortable feeling for her and prefers the positions that don’t hit the ''pee spot". Is this something that anyone can explain to me. I think maybe it's when my penis rubs her g-spot and that creates that sensation for her, but thats just a guess. I have no idea.

 

Yeah, it means she is about to ejaculate and isn't comfortable enough to do it yet. Enjoy it when she finally understands that its a good thing, and LOTS of fun!

 

Thanks. Do you think this is something I should talk to her about. As soon as she gets ths feeling she want to stop and change positions, how can I talk to her about carrying on and enjoying it.

 

Just talk to her and work on getting her comfortable with it. She might feel like she has to pee, but it's almost exactly what Eden said.. she just needs to let out a nice squirt

Plus, squirting or peeing either way doesn't really matter. It all can be easily washed out. If that's something you're not comfortable with, perhaps you could try it in the tub/shower or some relaxing (or kinky!) outdoors sex.

 

Thanks, I will try and talk to her about it. She is quite shy about it so it might take some convincing to get her to be open to enjoying the feeling.

 

I guess a question is, how can I explain to her that this uncomfotable feeling could turn into something that feels very good?

 

Go on the internet and show her some girls squirting and how intenseit is for them. I am sure she would love to try to experience that.

 

Somtimes this happens within a minute of me entering her, is it really possible to squirt that soon. Once she has that feeling, how long before it turns into pleasure and she starts squirting.

Thanks for your answer so far, it's great to get some insight into this as I obviously don't really undersatnd it

 

It's possible to happen that quickly if she is extremely aroused. Basically as soon as she feels the urge to pee she is right there on the edge (maybe a couple of strokes away). The "problem" is that she thinks she has to pee. I suggest finding a way to get her mind off of things a little. You should know when she is getting close (if not, pay attention and learn :2thumbsup, and when she is close start kissing her, moaning her name, or whatever turns her on, to take her mind off of the "I have to pee" feeling.

How she feels is pretty normal, so don't push the issue. Baby steps...you'll get there, and once you do she will wonder why she ever stopped before.

 

Thanks for your advice

 

If you rub the head of your penis with the palm of your hand the feeling you get is the same she feels. If you continue to rub you will have an orgasm. The mechanics are the same, the machinery is different.

Thomas

 

rubbing the head of my penis while stroking my shaft is incredible, no sense of peeing but truly a deep sensuous feeling that runs up through the base of my rib cage. Nice

 

Right, show her some internet porn to show how happy the actresses are and that she is wrong to feel uncomfortable. </sarcasm>

How about respecting her enough to let her decide what she is or isn't/should or shouldn't be comfortable with?

How about letting her decide whether or not to trust an internet diagnosis of what is happening. Or how much to trust the third hand diagnosis offered by whoever chose to respond to this thread. If it's a problem for her, she would be on-line, not you. (And she would have a more accurate description of the sensation.)

Guys, if we hate having women try to "fix" us, our hair style, our manners, our feelings, maybe we should refrain from reciprocating from trying "fixing" women, especially their sexual feelings, desires or preferences.

 

eh, its not necessarily because she's extremely aroused, as everyone seems to be saying here. when u have sex your penis "pushes" into the girl's bladder, so yea it gives her the impression that she needs to pee. now it can be very uncomfortable if her bladder is "full". so it helps if she goes to the bathroom right before u have sex.

 

i think some people here must have had some incredbly intense experiences whilst sitting on the toilet.

 

A good pee is very satisfying

 

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I don't remember anyone saying there was a problem, only a series of questions as to what to expect. I get the impression from the older people here that asking questions is forbidden. If it ain't broke don't fix it, don't even wonder about it. 50 years ago women could not vote, they were expect not to have orgasms and were forbiden to maturbate. If SHE wants to express her feelings on this forum I am sure she has access. HE has an equal right to ask questions here as well.

I can't believe you made such comments.

Thomas