I'm bisexual, and have been with my boyfriend for a very long time. I've never been with a woman, so basically what I'm asking is if It's possible to 'settle down' before having had that experience? Being bisexual, Is it possible to be with only one sex and not have it torture you forever?
of course, if u're happy and in love with someone u will "settle down" for them without regrets. the same way straight or gay people can settle down for someone and never have sex with other pple. if u are currently tortured because u want to be with a woman, then allow me to say that your bf is not mister right.
human beings are inherently curious curiosity, however, is not torture. you may find it difficult to contain your frustrations.
I think this answer is very idealistic and unrealistic. For many, probably even most, this may be the case. But for others, they might be so unsure of themselves, so curious, so lustful that only trying it will satisfy them. Despite how otherwise happy or in love they may be. It is possible, OP, that you are one of the majority; it is also possible that you are one of the minority I mention. You will have to decide this for yourself. In the meantime; have you talked to your man about any of this? He could very well be willing to let you have an experience. Hell, maybe he'd like to be there
Im bi and the way I look at it is im bi when im single and it changes to suit what sex im in a relationship with
Yeah Ditto what duck said, WTF? If a married guy came on to the forum and said he wanted to see what it would be like with a guy, how would you react?, probably scold him for thinking of cheating on the wife, you wouldnt turn around and say hey, think that means your wife is not mrs right. He's said he's been with his boyfriend for a very long time, so we are talking serious relationship, not schoolyard fling. Do you see how passive aggressive that comment came off sounding?
Just a query - how do you know that you are bi if you have never been with a woman? You might find that though you find a nice sexy woman attractive when it comes to actually having sex with her you may be completely turned off. Simon
