When do you think is appropriate vs. innapropriate to initiate sexual contact?

Be quick then!! :2thumbsup:

 

Well this is how I feel. I feel like I am just a total freak for wanting sex and I don't even have the right to approach women because of that. I just get so many constant negative and hurtful messages about sex that right now I my heart hurts just thinking about it. I wish I was free. I wish I knew what was what but nobody will tell me. I guess because they imagine I must already know by now or I must have had the sort of experience that allows me to see all the subjective subtleties that tell me about what's what. Could somebody just listen to what I am saying/asking and hear me?

 

I've always been told by guys that generally guys don't befriend women unless they want to have sex with them. So thats probably why most women assume that when a man is being friendly, he wants to have sex with her.

and so what? Sex is what makes the world go round.

Dude. Its sex. Its a beautiful thing. Its not meant to stress you out. Its supposed to decrease stress. Just find someone to have sex with already and stop stressing.

 

Keep approaching females. I wouldn't straight up ask for sex from jump street unless she is throwin it at you. Push through any rejection, shrug it off and move on to the next. Don't worry so much about what you're doing right or wrong.

There are a lot of ugly brain dead mofos out there gettin laid. Being confident is a choice not something that happens to you cause your naturally fucking cool.

Get a haircut ya hippie, get some decent clothes, stop wearin old spice and get a good cologne and go talk to some girls. Standing around doubting yourself is not going to get you laid or put you in a relationship. Stop telling yourself you're a freak or fucked up or whatever you said earlier.

 

Okay good. I will take your advice. I will freak out less about it. So in what contexts have YOU had sex in your life? Not trying to pry. I am just trying to get an idea of what sex means to a girl. Have you ever complained about a guy trying to get into your pants? I'm just trying to get a feel for things.

 

Alright I will take your advice too. I will even try to feel like I am not a freak.:2thumbsup:

 

I guess what I'm saying is that in reality society dictates that one should be more subtle. But I think it would be really refreshing to be able to approach someone so directly and not get slapped across the face. Fact is, there are probably some guys who could totally pull the very direct approach and I'm sure some women would find it refreshing (others of course would punch him in the eye). Speaking for myself, I'd probably get punched right in the eye. The reason that I found Duck's post so amusing isn't because I think your question is funny - it's the idea of bucking the ridiculous conventions of human behavior that amuses and delights me.

 

good god, you guys know this? why the hell do you still let us befriend you then if you're not interested?

 

For the heck of it? 'Cause they can? It's all a game ya know.

 

The ONLY time that sex is appropriate is between husband and wife--PERIOD!

 

I'm gonna go on having it inappropriately then

 

In response to a question I posted on another website (It was an Ask-a-philosopher website):

"It isn't sexual harassment to express interest in a woman in a social circumstance, at least in the first instance. There are lots of ways of doing this that are rude, crude, and stupid, of course."

So this question is to people of both genders though I hope females will answer as well.

What ways of expressing sexual interest toward a woman would you consider rude, crude, and stupid?

 

Exactly, I don't feel that their is anything wrong with being not subtle, and yet I get a message from society that I have to be subtle. Right of the bat I am told that my intuition of what is right and wrong about sexual interactions is wrong. And that's why i feel I need to ask about what is right and wrong since clearly my intuition provides no help.

Sadly very few women see any need to provide information on this.

 

rape.

 

Hey man its been a while since this post was made but im just curious, how did it end up?