so it hurt!! :(

Ok people, so i had sex last night, n well yes he was big, but he went in deep n well to be honest it hurt more then i got any pleassure!
But i like him, n want to again. what am i to do??

 

tell him to be more gentle ?

 

Its only gets better after the first time no worries

 

Im not a virgin!! done it plenty of times lol, but maybe his just to big for me!!

 

Ain't no such thing. Communication may save your kitty yet.

Important is not to "cramp up" with anticipation the next time. :sunny:

Take it slow and have loads of fun.

 

hmm maybe i was, but didnt realise, it was only when he went in deep!!

 

Try to adjust the tilt of your hips. If he's really long, the less you tilt, the less it'll feel like you're getting stabbed in the stomach.

 

ok then thanks, i will have to try n chill next time aswell lol x

 

YOu can always be on top to guide the depth of penetration. Also maybe try doggystyle.


Absolutely do not let him put your legs up and push them back if he's going too deep.


(Can't really help that much as I'm a masochist and love pain .. well, pleasure pain..)

 

we did doggy style n that was the worst way n hurt the most, the only way i felt fairly comfy was missionary!! but people think thats a boring position.

 

Doggy permits much deeper penetration than missionary.

Sex is boring? Only a missionary could say such a thing.

 

Yeah, doggy would be bad. Lie flat with him behind you. Froggy ftw. Then he'll still feel super deep without hurting you.

 

try different positions

 

which people?

 

I think missionary is really hot. But so does he, so we can't do that for very long. lol

 

Well alot of people start with missionary, n wll my friends say that its a boring way to have sex, but i love it that way, im not fond of not facing my partner during sex.

 

paper bag them.

 

While the vagina will stretch to accommodate larger sizes, thats only to a point. You may have a small vagina. (Yes just like dick sizes so too do vaginas vary in size, depth, etc.)

Go slow, use lots of lube, make sure you're really turned on.

And if it still hurts, he's probably hitting your cervix which is causing the discomfort.

 

missy,
missionary is a cool position...and also easy for YOU to control him...if going deep hurts, TELL him...and ask that he figures out how to guage his "Plunge" if you will...i'm sure he does not want to hurt yoo, so this shouldn't be a problem...if he says no or ignores you concerns, maybe you might reconsider the relationship...and yeah, i'm a guy, and have always respected my partner's wishes...now married almost 21 years to the same girl, i had better respect her wishes or it's the couch or maybe the van for me! lol

anyway take care of yourself, because you can get more of the "hims" of the world, but ya only get one you.
cheers,
carl

 

the hurt is god telling you that you're going to hell