Your Not A Bad Person, Your Just Human, These Things Happen When We Least Expect Them. Concentrate On Saving The Friendship, And If The Sexual Stuff Rears It's Head Again*pun intended* Then Maybe, Just Maybe, You Two Could Make A Future Together...:2thumbsup:. Hope Everything Pan's Out For You.... Cheers Glen.
No crime was committed here. Death and sex are both Natural. A death happening doesn't make sex any less Natural. Love, of course, is the same. What is unnatural is someone ending their Life because another Life ended. As Glen said, you two could possibly have a future.
so what would have happened if you didnt fuck her?...were you planning to continue a life long close friendship with her just because she was your buddies wife?...a friendship would eventually peter out because you would both be a constant reminder of the dead friend....if you feel bad just write a short[read short] note saying that you regret your actions and hope that any future friendship is not jeopardized and that she can count should she need anything in the future..... and move on my condolences on the loss of your good friend..
If you absolutely want to be called a terrible person, then I'll call you that. But think about why you want to be called that. Do you need confirmation? Do you want us to drag you down? Stop doing this mind-trip thing, go talk to the woman, straighten things out a bit. Do something positive. It'll be good for you and her. My condolences.
Her and I were already friends independently of my buddy, so yes I would have like to continue the friendship we already had. Thanks for the advice everyone, I appreciate it.
