I bought one online from a reliable shop, it was called a "love tunnel", brown and made of a type of soft rubber, supposedly hypo-allegenic. However a couple of times even using lubricant, I've been a bit sore and sensitive on the head of my penis afterwards and it takes a couple of days to dissaipate and so I've binned it. I mean it was great at first and quite efficient but I'm going to stick to my hand and real sex in future.. anyone else had these experiences?
I have tried a couple of these things with no trouble. Fleshlight was ok, but to me not the mind blowing sensation they market.
I know it sounds weird at first, but.. Buy yourself a ladies clit tickler, you will know it when you see it, it is made by Doc Johnson, three metal nubs on the front and 1 AA battery. Tease your balls with it while you do your thing with the other hand. The orgasm will be very long and you will be surprised at how much cum you make!
Just yesterday I wrote about masturbation toys on other topic. Fleshlight is definitely good and works well for me. But I've also read somewhere that Fleshlight doesn't do any good for many men. I guess everyone is different. Recently I've purchased a new toy which "I" think works better than Fleshlight, even less expensive. It's called Venus masturbator. I purchased it because I've read it's one of the most sold toy in Japan, which I really don't believe because Tenga must be the #1 sold Jap toy. Anyway, I wanted to let you guys know there are some other good masturbation toys out there other then Fleshlight, though I am still in love with my Fleshlight. hehe.
I find the FleshLight to be excellent, and feels extremely realistic - which may be why it doesn't suit some men, illogical as that may sound, because, as I quickly discovered when I first lost my virginity, actual penetrative sex is not like masturbation. Logic may dictate that masturbation is nothing more than using the hand to create an artificial vagina, and therefore physically no different to the real thing - but that's where you'd be wrong. Actual sex is taken at a far slower pace than you could possibly achieve with masturbation. Furthermore you have no control over the level of pressure being applies to the penis, and the level of pressure that the vagina does produce is nowhere like the amount of pressure you would apply by hand. In fact, when it comes to sex with a partner, most of the stimulation is mental - which is where the difference lies with the FleshLight. As with a real vagina, you have no control over the pressure, which is only a fraction of what you would be applying by hand. Physically it may well feel identical to the real thing, but mentally you know that it's not. Although I have never used my FleshLight in a Mutual Masturbation session with a partner yet, I suspect the sensations would be greatly enhanced, simply because of the increased mental stimulation.
PineMan, your explanation is awesome. I completely agree on "mental" part. Also, with a real sex, we use sense of smell, vision, hearing, taste, and all that makes difference.
Obviously the real thing is better because of the mental stimulation, but manual stimulation results in a far more extreme orgasm.
Maybe you didn't use enough lube? My husband has tried the sleeves and found them ok but not great and they are all more or less the same. His favourite toy right now is the Monkey Spanker which he likes a little too much I think ha ha
the day i bought my fleshlight, i bought another artificial vagina (it may have been a porn star signature vagina thing), and they were both great in different ways. the latter one started disintegrating, but i liked the form factor better. holding on to such a wide diameter thing as the fleshlight isn't that comfortable. i was able to come with both of them.
